Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions.
Episode 25 – Confessions
Published: July 24, 2010Posted in: Podcast
Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions.
I am a follower of your work for the last two years. Again, thank you so much for posting your recordings so our like-minded people can enjoy. It was not until I stumbled onto your website, reading your writings and listening to your recordings that I felt content that I am normal and other folks like myself exist in this world. Until that point, I tried to fit the mold of what girls wanted me to be. A belated appreciation to you for assisting me to accept me for me.
Oh Mia! I have so much to say, and I can only type 72 wpm. LOL. I have followed you on Twitter, but I haven’t logged on in like 2 weeks.
I am happy that you made this Confession! It not a surprise. We are with you and here for you.
Love always,
one of your groopies… Vee
Loved your honesty in your confessions podcast. Looking forward to your future work.
Love the latest podcast. Looking forward to your future work.
Thanks, Vee, CDA, and Axe. xxMia
When I entered my mid 20s in the late 2000s, I realized that some of my sexual fantasies can be tied together with intimacy/romance. And after dating or interacting with my share of “vanilla and “vanilla type” women from 2005 to 08, I was demoralized. These women said the same thing–BDSM, role-playing or pornography cannot be incorporated into a healthy relationship. I started to accept that these girls were right that maybe I had a warped view and that I was sick in the head.
Fortunately, I stumbled across your website sometime in summer or fall 2008 and soaked in what your website and recordings provided—comfort and reassurance. I want to thank you for assisting me to accept my sexuality. I now realize that I am no different from other folks that know there is a time and place to fool around and have fun, yet are able to carry a healthy lifestyle of holding a job or attending school in addition to holding normal relationships with people.
Thank you again, Mia. I will be listening.
Jason –
I had no idea my podcast would help in such regards and I am thrilled to learn it has. I’m sorry to hear about the negative experiences with closed minded people. And I am glad to hear you are not taking on the view that BDSM cannot occur in healthy relationships. Often, a little kink makes for a healthy relationship. Good luck finding your way. And keep in touch. Thanks for the note. xxMia