I Want Your Sex

Episode 26 – Five-Minute Porn Star

Mia — Sat, 07 Aug 2010 19:20:27 +0000

From the Fast Girls anthology a reading of Five-Minute Porn Star by Jacqueline Applebee.

Fantasy Door Swing – A Review

Mia — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 22:11:57 +0000

Fantasy Door Swing (Adam & Eve Item #K876, $49.95)

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They say, “Enjoy positions you never thought were possible.”
I say, “Enjoy positions your door wishes were not possible.”

The two harnesses of the Fantasy Door Swing hang over a door by two acrylic tubes. Unfortunately, these tubes only have placeholders in the harness and are not sewn in. When determining what door to use, the tubes kept falling out of the material. So rather delicately one has to drape the tubes over the door and see if the door closes shut. Patience is a virtue, right?

It should be noted that the hangers center of gravity will be coming from the top of the door therefore I would recommend only using the swing on solid doors. If the door isn’t sturdy enough, the wood will bow away from the frame. If you only have hollow core doors and don’t mind replacing them, then go for it. Otherwise, I would limit your time on the swing.

Once my male case study and I determined the best door, it was time to adjust the straps and try various positions. At first I was nervous about the swing holding all of my weight. After several rounds of, “Are you sure?” I finally pulled my weight into the arm harnesses and brought my feet into the bottom loops. With my backside towards him I felt like Spiderman climbing the wall. But naked and having my bits fondled. A couple rounds of spankings later, we moved to the next position. Adjusting the straps was easy, but getting in and out of the harness took some assistance.

The best position was rigging my inner thighs into the lower harnesses so it was like I was sitting on an imaginary chair in the middle of the door. I was pulled far enough off the ground that even if I stretched my leg, I couldn’t touch the floor.

“Here I am helplessly hanging from the door. So fucked.”

And, yes, that is exactly what happened. The door does bow out a bit, but fortunately I recently moved into a house with many, many doors. I might just want to try them all.

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Freedom of Fetish Podcast Interview

Mia — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 05:23:46 +0000

Raven Lightholme of The Freedom of Fetish podcast asked me to be on her show to chat about sex parties. It was a fun two hour chat, most of which she included in the ‘cast. Have a listen to hear be chat about my sexuality and my sex party do’s and don’ts. I answer people’s questions about sex party pick up lines, cleanliness, hosting, and more.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 14.0

Debbie Does Dallas: The Revenge – A DVD Review

Mia — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:25:58 +0000

“Debbie Does Dallas: The Revenge” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #5026, $29.95)

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This installment of the Debbie series revolves around a rag tag group at spring break camp. Debbie (Sunrise Adams) is the cheerleading captain from the poor side of town and her spoiled rich teammates like to give her a hard time, be her best friend, and order her around. It’s all very confusing, just like in high school.

The interludes are long with some campy acting and pretty unfortunate fashion styling. The ladies cheer in rather conservative uniforms and the hot little bod of Sunrise Adams gets covered up in sweat suits five times her size. The baggy duds don’t stay on for long, of course, but still the sexy wearing-my-boyfriend’s-clothes is taken to an unsexy extreme in this skin flick.

Some highlights from the interludes are “The Man Show” inspired with naked jumping jacks, jogging without bras, and many rounds of spin the bottle.

The smut scenes are masturbation heavy, which is fitting for the camp backdrop. The sex is rather tame, but honest. Sunrise Adams eats a pussy like she actually enjoys the trip downtown. And female domination can be read into the not one, but two, scenes of a woman sitting on a man’s face.

Female empowerment can also be found in the opening scene when a woman gives a show for her jock boyfriend in the woods. Clothes stay on for the most part, but she rubs one out and scores the first come of the camp. Of course, her shudders are followed with engulfing his large cock in her mouth. But honestly, she looks happy as a clam to do so. In fact, she demanded him to put his cock in her mouth and she followed up phenomenal deep throating and cock spitting.

Debbie gets her voyeurism on when her co-workers break into spontaneous sex at the dining hall. She’s not left on the tabletop touching herself doggie style for long — a full-blown threesome erupts with ice cubes to boot. In the end, Debbie and her nemesis end up on the field naked mud wrestling and making out because where would a cheerleading camp movie be without that hot mess?

The bonus features are only photo galleries, but this 2-hour movie will keep you entertained plenty.

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Episode 25 – Confessions

Mia — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:09:23 +0000

Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions.

Playful Ties – A Review

Mia — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 15:57:55 +0000

Playful Ties (Adam & Eve Item #M083, $14.95)

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Hopeful this won’t be the most expensive lingerie you purchase for someone special, however it is nice to make sexy purchases that won’t break the bank. The key word with this product is playful. This is a set you could have fun with on a vacation, at a sex party, or camping and I doubt you would feel heart broken or guilty if the set went missing. And there is something to be said for that.

The Playful Ties set includes wrist and ankle cuffs, a G-string, and a choker all in the same teal lace with black satin ribbons. If the choker fastened with a cute button, I might be more inclined to wear to. Instead it fastens with a large Velcro square — never the most seductive material. And the G-string is nothing to write home about. So my advice is to toss aside the G-string and choker and focus on the wrist and ankle cuffs.

I like cutesy girly things with lace, ribbons, and bows so wearing the cuffs made me feel preciously decorated. And because the lace is stretchy, these cuffs are more for decoration than actually restraintment. No matter the tie, I could easily slip my wrists out of the cuffs. But again, this is supposed to be a playful set.

My preferred use of the ties is to wear the ankle and wrist cuffs when giving head. Seeing the bright teal lace and loops of black satin mingle next to his cock gave me a rush. Sure I could wrestle out of the lace, but why would I want to? With these ties I was decorating more than just my mouth.

I recommend purchasing the Playful Ties if you are beginning to explore bondage, like lingerie, but don’t have a lot of cash, or need something fun to pack on your next trip.

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Shedding Skins

Mia — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 04:56:37 +0000

If you aren’t following me on Twitter or friends with me on Facebook (and really why aren’t you?) then you might have missed the news. After 10 years, I have left the city that was the closest thing I could ever call home and moved back to my southern roots. I moved around every two to four years growing up (no, not a military brat), so New York is the longest I have either lived anywhere. I do feel a sense of accomplishment with the 10 years landmark in New York City. I think I can call myself a New Yorker now……and I have left. New York, NY to Austin, TX.

I have been in Austin for 9 days now and each day I love it more and more. I am shedding my NYC skin layered with grit, stress, and the buzz of continuous movement to a calmer, more silly, and playful me. In NY you work hard and play harder. After 9 years of doing such, I felt a change was needed. It took about a year to figure out what that change would be and I am so grateful to have to opportunity and ability to relocate.

At first I thought maybe in Austin unwashed hair, little make up, and out of it from moving stress was all that a woman needs to get hit on often and everywhere. But the more I spend time in the town, talking to shop clerks, people at bars and the like, the more that I am realizing the Austonians are not hitting on me, they are just welcoming and happy. Happy.

This is the change of life that I have been looking for. It’s not to say that New Yorkers are not welcoming and happy. The kindness and generosity of New Yorkers is more vast than the stereotype leads people to think. It’s more the city itself with it’s constant grind and non stop work ethic: one opens up pockets of time only to fill it with more activities — more work, more drinking, more running from one thing to the next. It gets exhausting and it takes work to unwind in New York, to find some solitude, a moment of peace, a moment to reflect. And that is what one can rely on, moments. What about an hour, a day, a week. After 10 years, the grind wore me down, but I do not begrudge any of my time in New York. I am proud to say I lived in New York for as long as I did and I am proud to say I am leaving before I became so weighted down by the city life that I grew to hate it.

New York City gave me so much. It is a city I will always be grateful to for allowing me to hide and be discovered at my choosing. I reinvented myself several times over the years, sometimes more domestic and suburban, sometimes more drunk and debaucherous. I had four different careers in New York, none of which would have been able to move in and out of without the community I built and the city’s transient and fluid nature.

I will always love New York.

My last months there I walked the streets thinking, “I no longer belong to New York and New York no longer belongs to me.” Now I realize New York and I will always belong to one another, I just needed to shed skins, this time, in another town.

One of the hardest things about leaving New York is managing people’s emotions about my departure. The wise bartender at my old local watering hole said that when he left NY, his friends refused to believe it until he was in the car with all his belongings boxed up and he was waving goodbye. It’s something about leaving a city that is so iconic that makes people question their position in it he said.

I encountered crossed arms and shaking heads of disappointment (no. you can’t leave.), to the envious, to the angered envious, to those who dismissed my move saying that I will miss New York too much, to those who spoke about me in terms of “running away” and “moving on.” To which all I can respond is that this move is by choice and it is one that was well thought out. The running away and moving on comments is harder for me to process because both have negative connotations. I am not running, but leaving. And the moving on phrase makes it sound like one has to leave NY in order to enter the next chapter. I feel strongly that for me, leaving NYC will lead me to better health, I will be a better partner, and at some point, a better parent. Nothing against anyone who manages to do it all in New York. Hats off to ya’ll. All I can say is that I am doing what is best for my partner and me.

I have made this big lifestyle change with my partner in crime, Nate. Since two Nates make appearances in the podcast and even though I worked hard to distinguish the two in podcast Episode #24 “Sex Reporter,” confusion still arises. So here we go.

I am with Nate:
aka the-one-I-lost-my-hetero-virginity-to-at-26, read Nerve piece.
who I lovingly refer to as Boo on Twitter and FB. (again, why aren’t you there?)
not introduced as “my sex party buddy,” but we do attend such events now.
the one who encouraged me to write about my sex party exploits and helped conceptualize the podcast.
the one who broke up with me and who, for many years, I wanted another chance with.
the one who when things were going down with Carmen starting to sniff around again and asked for another chance.
And so we have.

A new chapter has begun.

Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse – A DVD Review

Mia — Sat, 15 May 2010 20:26:59 +0000

“Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse” DVD (Adam & Eve Item # 4869, $39.95)

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The Masseuse could easily be renamed “How Creepy Guys Become Stalkers” because as much as the storyline is about a masseuse experimenting with giving “happy endings,” the plot more heavily revolves around a socially awkward virgin with bondage fantasies. America’s porn sweetheart, Jenna Jameson, plays Barbara the masseuse and Justin Sterling plays creepy guy Jim. Interesting note, Jenna Jameson and Justin Sterling were married during the making of this porn.

Shot on 35mm, the director shoots nice sunlight backed shots and tries to make this more of a movie than typical porn. Movie, it might be, but slow going and with horrible editing it is. The splicing between sex positions, characters, and plot lines becomes laughable at some points. What begins as an evening bathroom bondage girl on girl show for Jim ends with a morning strap on fuck fest with Justin nowhere to be found. In the morning when Jim walks in on Barbara and friend, Barbara says, “This is Helen.” Why an introduction had not been made hours and hours before it is unclear.

But that is the charm of porn — laughable scenarios and bad acting. What makes this one worth it is the rope bondage scene between Jim and Barbara. The chemistry between the two is palpable. When Jim commands Barbara to “spread your legs” one can sense how much his authority turns her on. They are no longer Jim and Barbara; they are Jenna and Justin, a couple very much in love who adore pleasing one another.

Jenna looks to-die-for naked except for black collar, black spike heels, and green rope laced through her collar and around her entire body. With a metal dental mouth gag keeping Jenna’s mouth a gapping hole, Justin teases Jenna with an assortment of props including a flogger and glass dildo. The scene is hot, hot, hot and well worth the purchase. Also, worth watching are the hand and blowjobs Jenna gives Justin. These scenes were used in a blowjob class I took at Babeland on how to give good head.

The rest of the flick is pure entertainment. Watch the Masseuse remake with Jenna Jameson and the original from the 80’s (included in the DVD) when you want a laugh with your friends. Watch the sex parts with Jenna Jameson and Justin Sterling when you want to get turned on.

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Episode 24 – Sex Reporter

Mia — Sat, 08 May 2010 16:36:47 +0000

Interrupting a threesome for answers, latex coverings, and new beginnings.

Under the Bed Restraint System – A Review

Mia — Sat, 01 May 2010 11:51:44 +0000

Under the Bed Restraint System (Adam & Eve #A364, $59.95)

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They say, “Turn any bed into a bondage playground.”
I say, “Excellent purchase, especially if you are new to bondage and your bed has no frame or other point of attachment. Or if you travel and have bondage equal on your list to sightseeing – this can turn any motel into a dungeon.”

I am not a huge fan of Velcro cuffs, mostly because of the noise they make when you take them off. It can be a major buzz kill. However, every toy has a time and a place. And when the time and the place are right, the Under the Bed Restraint System can be an easy way for the domme to control the sub.

It took a bit of mattress moving to get the straps set, but this task can be pawned off to the submissive, which was I. Finagling the straps under the bed was mildly annoying, but I was able to replace annoyance with excitement of what was to come. Because we agreed the Velcro adjustment noise is not so sexy, my domme attached the cuffs around my wrists and ankles before we started the scene.

I set up the straps to hang off the head and the foot of the mattress like my domme told me and I adjusted the straps to what looked like a good length. Surprisingly he did not hook me into the set up immediately upon his entrance in the room. But he is good at keeping me guessing like that. After verbally humiliating me, my domme pushed me on the bed, belly down. He locked my wrists in, pulled me up by my center so that I was on all fours, moved me so that my ankles hung off the mattress, locked my ankles in, and I was his. By the end of our scene, I was no longer thinking about the tacky Velcro noise.

The Under the Bed Restraint system is a great way to begin practicing bondage. With 60-inch straps, a restraint point can be placed nearly anywhere on or hanging off of a mattress. The novelty item also travels well and stores easily so a dungeon can get turned back into a guest room. Or the straps can be tucked in between the mattress and box spring and pulled out when desired. The Under the Bed Restraint System makes for great options – zip in, zest up, and turn on.

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Body Wax Massage Candle – A Review

Mia — Sat, 24 Apr 2010 18:01:45 +0000

Body Wax Massage Candle (Adam & Eve Item # 3155, $12.95)

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Sometimes it is nice to take the kinky experimenting down a notch and go back to the basics of scent and touch. The Flavor of Love Body Wax Massage Candle helps you do just that. The instructions read that one can let the candle burn for 20 – 30 minutes and then pour the melted soy wax onto your partner for a sensual massage.

Excited to give each other massages, I lit the candle before foreplay had begun. Quickly the aroma of vanilla bean filled the room. At first, I enjoyed the smell. Later, I came to despise it. With my willingly case study on his stomach, I dripped the candle wax on his back. The candle had been burning for just 10 minutes, but enough liquid had formed to massage his back.

The soy wax felt smooth, buttery, and non-greasy. The wax droplets did not harden like a regular candle wax. Instead I was able to easily work the wax into my hands and smooth over his skin. All to often, I focus on the blowjob as foreplay for my male case study. To instead give his back, shoulders, and neck some caressing was a nice change of pace.

Similarly when it was my turn to be massaged my male case study worked bodies parts of much neglect, my inner thighs and calves. When poured on, the wax didn’t burn like I expected it to. In fact having the warm liquid poured on the top most part of my inner thigh tickled a little. Somehow the wax maintained a warm temperature and never got too hot to burn which made tin was easy to handle.

Lying on my back with my leg raised to his chest, my male case study worked my leg muscles with expert finesse, that he no longer was my case study, but my masseur. A masseur who made many inappropriate passes and insisted on a happy ending. How could I refuse? I am a sucker for spontaneous role-playing, massage, and sex.

I recommend you get yours.

And on a final note, the vanilla bean aroma did stay in the room well after the masseur had closed up shop. After a while, I was irritated by the scent and I had to change the sheets. So I recommend using the Body Wax Massage Candle on laundry day or during your next hotel stay, where clean sheets are a phone call away.

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Tongue Vibe – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:46:35 +0000

Tongue Vibe Item (Adam & Eve# F150, $39.95)

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I like little things, like little vibrators and I love giving head. Therefore I thought the Tongue Vibe would be a perfect combination of two of my favorite things: a small vibe that can be slipped onto your tongue to enhance oral sex.

The Tongue Vibe boasts that it is a dual speed, quiet, powerful, glow-in-the-dark, non-metallic, non-latex, non-allergenic, and phthalate free vibrator. All of these characteristics are true. However, the bit about wearing this vibrator on your tongue while giving oral was near impossible.

I rolled my tongue to place it through the loop and as soon as I flattened my tongue, the vibe fell off. I tried several times. Trying to keep the vibe centered on my tongue was like trying to balance a spoon on your nose. Whenever I got the vibe steady and centered, I moved towards his cock, and then the toy fell off. The whole thing felt a little silly.

The instructions read that the vibe can be attached to more than just the tongue. So I attached both vibes to his cock and he fucked me for a bit. But because the vibe lay along his shaft and not perpendicular to it, I couldn’t get great clit stimulation from the vibrations; it just felt distracting.

Determined to find a good use for this toy, we experimented some more. Plus I wanted to get back to giving him head. I placed the vibes on my pointer and middle finger and massaged my cheek while slowly sucking the shaft of my male case study. Yes. This is the right use for this toy. I liked the cheek massage and he enjoyed the soft waves that pulsated through my mouth to him. It wasn’t long before he came.

I recommend this toy be used as a finger vibe rather than a tongue vibe. Also, it is easy to remove the plastic holder (as shown in the photo) and use the vibe in a variety of ways. The Tongue Vibrator is a powerful little vibe, just not best used on the tongue.

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The Office 2: A XXX Parody – A DVD Review

Mia — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:04:51 +0000

“The Office 2: A XXX Parody” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #M756, $24.95)

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Because I enjoyed the first parody so much, I had to check out the sequel and it did not let me down. Returning to this genius parody is Ashlynn Brooke (Michelle), Gianna Michaels (Candy), James Deen (Jimmy) and Dane Cross (Dwayne). Joining the crew is Sadie West (Sam), Nika Noir (Kylie), Jenny Hendricks (Kara), Randy Spears (Reed), Mr. Marcus (Stan), and Dino Bravo (Dave). The premise and interludes had me laughing just like the first one.

When Michelle is called to headquarters for her yearly review, she fears getting a corporate whip lashing. So she makes a video to demonstrate her dedication to employee happiness at Dinder Muffin. Here are the highlights:

Monday, Candy and Stan: inter-racial hard and fast fucking, serious deep throating, she’s a laugher and likes to bounce. Watching her naturally large boobs make fast and furious circles made my clit skip a beat.
Tuesday, Sam and Jimmy: It’s all about her pleasure in this one: clit rubbing, ass rimming, head giving, she’s a panter, and not a faker. Seeing her orgasm is one of the hottest things I have ever seen. It’s not one of those “did she come?” guessing games. He works for her pleasure and she climaxes more than once.
Wednesday, Kylie and Reed: multi-tasking a blowjob and rubbing one out for herself.
Thursday, Michelle and Dwyane: They coo and fuck and she fixes his nuts.
Friday, Kara and Dave: upside down face fucking with saliva a plenty, corona popping, and the 69. Everything after that is a bit of a bore.

In this weekly recap Monday and Tuesday were my favorite days. And there is more of Tuesdays vixen Sadie West in the bonus features. Hotness.

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The Original Venus Butterfly – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 01:46:40 +0000

The Original Venus Butterfly (Adam & Eve Item # K526, $24.95)

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The Venus Butterfly was one of the first sex toys I purchased back in my late teens. Over the years I have burned through many of these hand free vibrators, but the California Exotics ones have always lasted the longest. How have I burned through so many? Overheated the little things. The Venus Butterfly comes with little instruction, but I have determined that the vibrator should not be kept on full speed for longer than half an hour. It has been a couple years since I have owned a pair of these “vibrating panties,” so I was thrilled to get my hands on this one. Then, as I tried to put the Venus Butterfly on, I remembered the difficulty. Where do the straps go? What is the little extra thingy for? Does this strap go here or here?

Here is a photo taken of the Venus Butterfly right after use. See those two straps at the bottom? They wrap around your thigh and the top strap wraps around your waist. Seems to be totally logical, but it can get confusing once attached to your body. I fastened the one strap around my thigh and then I looked in total uncertainty at the other straps dangling from my leg. Which one goes where?

While working to adjust the unattached leg strap, I somehow unbuttoned the strap from the butterfly. Now there were several empty clasps and I wasn’t sure which one went to which. I looked to the box for help, but I couldn’t be bothered to study the one diagram on the back. I threw the box to the side. I was going to have to figure this one out on my own. So I compared the one strap to the other and after a minute I determined what needed to go where. Once the leg straps where in place, the waist strap was easy to hook together.

The frustrating minute or so it took me to get the Butterfly attached was as familiar as was the vibration that buzzed the entire length of my pussy. It felt great to have my hands free to do other things other than hold a vibrator. I loved how snug the Venus Butterfly rested against my body. The low-to-high vibration is controlled on a slider fashioned on both sides of the remote and the speed variation is nicely designed. The Butterfly may not the quietest vibrator, but it might just be the girliest, and I love it for that. Having a pink vibrator attached to me makes me feel sexy, feminine, and in control of my pleasure. But I don’t always have to be the one holding the control. This can be used in a variety of ways in varying positions. Think of the possibilities when you had over the remote and get on all fours. Yummy.

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Episode 23 – Chasing Tail

Mia — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:46:45 +0000

Seduction, desire, and destruction in P***y City.

Kiss and Tell Reading Series

Mia — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 02:42:50 +0000

The reading has been rescheduled to 3/16 due to weather issues. Come see me then.

I will be reading something naughty at Abiola Abrams reading series on February 16th. The event is free and runs from 7-10pm at Madame X — 94 West Houston in NYC.

More Kiss and Tell events details here.

Abiola interviewed me for The Examiner. Read here to find out what is the sexiest thing I have done for somebody and vice versa.

Other readers for the Mardi Gras Fat Tuesday celebration include:
Twanna Hines of The Funky Brown Chick
Therese Shechter of Trixie Films
Modern Courtesan Yolanda Shoshana
Comic David Lester
Boy Butter creator Eyal Feldman
Lesbian Activist and Writer Renair Amin
Danielle Henderson of Knotty Yarn
Singing duo Sabrina and Giorgio
Katie AKA Lost Plum
Ceborah Gregory of CheetahRama

10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 20:57:04 +0000

10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator (Adam & Eve #Item K709)

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Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. And on orders placed through Valentine’s Day, you will also receive Adam & Eve’s Romance Kit for FREE. The kit includes a toy for him, a special massager for her and a little something we know you’ll both enjoy! And to top it off you will also receive a FREE adult DVD and FREE shipping on your entire order!

I was expecting a lot from the Remote Control Bullet. The 10 different pulsation patterns didn’t intrigue me as much as the remote control feature. The idea that my partner could control when I would got buzzed from as far away as 25 feet filled me with excitement. I started thinking about all the different scenarios we can use this toy.

I tested the vibe to make sure it worked. The pulsations felt good in my hand. The toy is made out of the same “touch coating” as my previously reviewed Mini Love Bullet, which is one of my favorite vibes. Like the Mini Bullet, the Remote Control Bullet is phthalates free and waterproof. Love that.

Once I inserted the Bullet, I handed the remote to my male case study. He likes things with buttons and immediately starting pushing the controller that varies the pulsations. The vibration is not terribly strong and did not jolt me with its power. This may or may not be a good thing for some people. I like a strong vibe for my clit, but prefer milder internal vibration stimulation.

Sure enough the remote control worked up to 25 feet away. The buzz traveled through rooms, closed doors, my jeans, and my panties. It is not completely silent, but only emits a low drone. If in a loud environment the toy would not be heard at all. I couldn’t distinguish between the pulsations patterns, but in the end it didn’t matter. I was more turned on by the control my case study had than the actual sensation of the Bullet. He had great timing of when to turn the Bullet on and off.

This toy was definitely good for foreplay, but without other sexual activity, I found it hard to reach an orgasm from the Bullet alone. It is a fun toy to pack in your purse and play with in public. The anticipation of when the button will be pushed is the true eroticism of the Remote Control 10 Function Bullet.

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Communicating an Open Relationship Workshop

Mia — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:06:54 +0000

I will be teaching a class at Shag, a new sexy shop in Williamsburg, Brooklyn on Thursday March 25th. Following is the class description. For details on location and pricing and to reserve a spot, head to http://weloveshag.com or click here.

What is an open relationship? How do you know if you want one? How can you be most successful in one?

Learn the basics on how to communicate your needs and how to be open to the needs of your partner. I will discuss the myths surrounding open relationships (“doesn’t that mean you can cheat and get away with it?”) as well as strategies for successful open relationships. I will share from her personal experiences of experimenting with different types of non-monogamy as well as her professional researching and writing.

This class is appropriate to people who are just considering an open relationship, couples already in one, and singles looking to swing with a couple. You will learn about what makes a relationship open, the varying types of open relationships, the questions to ask yourself and your partner(s), and the tools to maintain a loving relationship.

Bring an open mind. You will be surprised by what you discover.

Ultimate Stroker Beads – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:32:40 +0000

Ultimate Stroker Beads (Adam & Eve Item #A970 $9.95)

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I was a little misled by the name of this product. I thought the Ultimate Stroker Beads would be a great male masturbator toy. Then I read the box and I realized it was more of a cock ring than masturbator. My male case study has not used a cock ring and he was hesitant about this one. I thought it would be his style being that he used to wear a beaded chain fan pull as a bracelet. When I reminded him of this, a smile crept over his face. He said he would try the toy out.
We were in a bit of a quickie situation; we had to be at a dinner party in less than an hour. Going for the sure fire techniques that we’ve mastered we got each other ramped up. Then he reached for it — The Ultimate Stroker Beads.
“I thought I would put it on,” I said and reached for his cock. But it was too late. He was leashed up. His cock looked pretty hot all fancied up.
“What’s it like to stroke yourself with it on?” I asked.
It was delicious to watching his fist wrap about the beaded portion of his cock. However, it did not feel so good for him. One stroke up and then back down and he was done with that.
“That hurts. I have a better idea on how to use it,” he said and pulled my legs in the air. He positioned The Beads at the base of his cock and brought his tip to my labia. He ran the head of his cock up and down my lips like he knows I like.
“What do the Beads feel like? Is it working like a cock ring? You know that the cock ring is supposed to suppress the blood flowing to the cock, which makes for a longer and stronger orgasm.”
“Yeah. I know. We’re not writing the review now. No more questions,” he commanded.
“Sorry,” I said. The last syllable was dragged out into a moan — he was inside of me.
The deeper he drove, the more the beads come in contact with my clit. A-Ha. Maybe this was the true gem of this toy. I like it.
I will leave the rest of our sex to your imagination. But here are some final thoughts about the toy.

The Ultimate Stroker Beads:
• didn’t work so well as a masturbator or a cock ring. The beading is too hard for stroking and the elasticity too lose to really restrict the blood flow like a cock ring.
• worked really well as a fun experiment. It was enjoyable to try something new that will not break the bank.
• felt good on our genitalia because we were mostly hairless. If not hairless, I think hair would get caught in the elastic beading.
• is great for a bit of extra external stimulation for her.

Because he said it didn’t feel like anything in particular to have it on and because I think he looks hot wearing it and I like the way it feels, you can bet we will be using this one again.

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Roller Dollz – A DVD Review

Mia — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 00:21:48 +0000

Roller Dollz (Adam & Eve Item #H572, $34.95)

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A big smile came across my face when the opening sequence of Roller Dollz began. I love ladies roller derby so the idea of watching roller derby themed porn excited me. Roller Dollz did not disappoint. The plot is loosely based around a championship between The Pin-Ups, The Bitch & Moaners, and The Skool Ghoulz. Interlaced between the skating competitions is lots of sex.

Here are the highlights of the 247-minute movie:

Scene 1: Locker room shower, standing symmetrical fucking, and missed spit.
Scene 2: Lezzie love, a blackened eye, and fun music track.
Scene 3: “Let’s go on a cock hunt,” honkey tonk, and in-skate fucking.
Scene 4: Fun champagne on titties intro, wet, luscious, and sexy, all girl.
Scene 5: Slutty savior, first David Lynch-esque dream sequence, and naked floor routine.
Scene 6: Quickie before practice and in-skate uniformed head bang fucking.
Scene 7: “Unwritten roles of roller derby,” referee seduction, and blackmail photos.
Scene 8: Flickering neon pool light effect, toile, and a bouncing tram stamp.
Scene 9: Blackmail return-to-sender, cock face slapping, and real pierced tits.
Scene 10: Watching the cheaters, post-cum fucking, and a bust.
Scene 11: Derby fight turned orgy on the rink.

The last scene and the ladies love fest of Scene 4 are my favorite. The DVD is long, but who says you have to watch the entire flick in one viewing? Pick your favorite scene and even pick your favorite positions; the disk menu divides each scene by positions. I was so turned on and inspired by Roller Dollz that I laced up my own skates and got fucking.

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Episode 22 – Ladies Liplock

Mia — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:07:03 +0000

Girls Gone Wild: The Madonna and Brazilian edition.

Episode 21 – Sleep Tight

Mia — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:57:27 +0000

Frills and naughtiness. The Lonely Doll by Dare Wright

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio – A DVD Review

Mia — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 19:40:16 +0000

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio (Adam & Eve Item #F898, $29.95)

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As a fan of Tristan Taormino’s work, including her Village Voice column, her most recent book on open relationships, and, of course, her book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, I am always interested in Tristan’s viewpoint and education. The DVD “Expert Guide to Oral Sex Part Two: Fellatio” did not let me down.

The DVD begins with Tristan giving a workshop to 10 women, some of who look like they might prefer to be in between the legs of a woman rather than a man. But when Tristan brings out Christian and Roxy to demonstrate some techniques all audience members are actively engaged. Occasionally the camera pans to the faces of women who are licking their lips, shifting their bodies forward, and gripping at their knees, suggesting that that would like a turn at Christian’s cock.

Previous to the live demo, Tristan discussed the male anatomy (circumcised and uncircumcised) and it’s arousal points using excellent illustrations. The body parts are then diagrammed on a still frame of Christian’s naked body in position to receive head from Roxy. Having the key areas pinpointed makes it easy to be knowledgeable where the giver is focusing her attention. Like with all the couples preforming, Tristan begins by asking what Roxy and Christian enjoy about giving or receiving fellatio. While seated next to them on a long ottoman, Tristan talks through the phases of a good blow job that she organizes in these four stages: warm up, experiment, rhythm, and orgasm. It might seem clinical or odd to have someone giving instructions, but Tristan is casual in front of the camera and the couple is used to performing. After talking and demonstrating the four phases (except orgasm), Tristan opens up the floor for questions.

The DVD then becomes to a more traditional porn with scenes between three other men and women pairings. Kaiya and Alec focus on teasing, Lindsey and Marcos feature hand job techniques, and Adrianna and Alec show advanced skills such as deep throating and deep face thrusting. All givers communicate well with the receivers (“Is that the right pressure?” “Like that?”) and Tristan provides instructional voice-overs. Fun fellatio tips and reminders pop up on paused frames. This feature, which is reminiscent of the 90’s VHI’s Pop Up Video, was an added surprise and was helpful to note the benefits of certain positions or to note what the giver does when she needs a break. Also, the action can be viewed without the voice over and pop up instructions. I recommend watching Adrianna and Alec’s hot and sloppy deep throating without the tips and voice overs, her skills are something to aspire to.

The givers definitely run the show in this DVD — they take the cocks in as little or as much as they like. In standing shots, many of the men have their arms clasped behind them. It’s hot to see women giving head and look so turned on doing so. I got so turned on watching them that I interrupted my man working and got down on my knees.

So don’t miss out on the education and titillation. Purchase “Tristan Taormin’s Expert Guide to Oral Sex Part Two: Fellatio” DVD at www.adamandeve.com/miaontop and receive a 50% discount.

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Silicone Flexi-Power Rod – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 16:47:42 +0000

Silicone Flexi-Power Rod (Adam & Eve Item # A583, $29.95)

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They say, “7 levels of vibration, pulsation, and escalation.”
I say, “Part anal beads, dildo, and vibrator the Flexi-Power rod can be used in a variety of different ways.”

What first drew me to the Flexi Rod was the design, which reminds me of a riding crop — slender, flexible, and meant to be held in a specific manner. Unlike a riding crop, the flexibility of the Flexi Rod is for penetration and it would not make a good whip. Adam & Eve markets this toy as an anal vibrator, but the toy can be used for vaginal penetration as well. Having never experienced an anal vibrator I was curious to try.

Upon opening the Flexi Rod, I tested out the 7 vibrating functions to find which one I liked best. By pressing the two buttons at the same time, the quick stop is enacted. Then when you press the button again, it starts back at the first vibrating option. After a few rounds the varying speeds and sensations started to blend together. I thought I would like the “pulse, pulse vibration” function, but settled on vibration #1 which vibrates at a fast and steady pace.

Later, when my partner and I were having sex, he reached for the Flexi Rod to use instead of a butt plug. Always one to be intrigued by new things with buttons; he went through all the settings before deciding I would like the first vibration the best. (I love it when he is on the money.) All lubed up and on my hands and knees he inserted the vibrating toy only a few inches inside. I love anal play and vibrators so I expected to be overwhelmed with arousal upon insertion. I wasn’t. The vibration was so strong that I felt like my insides were being stirred up and messed with. I didn’t think I could warm up to the feeling so I asked him to stop. I was grateful for the quick stop button.

We went on to use the Flexi Rod as a beaded probe and found its bend-ability a nice feature. A word of caution when using the toy as a probe only, take out the batteries so that you don’t have to worry about turning on the vibration. I was surprised by a jolt a few times and shifting to turn the mechanism back off disrupted the rhythm a bit.

I have a sense that I will eventually get into vibrating anal penetration, until then the Flexi Rod will be used vaginally or as a probe without vibration. It is also worth noting that the silicone used to make the toy is phthalates free. This is good news for everyone involved. So get the Silicone Flexi-Power Rod for it’s design, versatility, and health consciousness.

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Episode 20 – BJ Backlash

Mia — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:53:54 +0000

The clash between fantasy and reality.

Look Mom, I’ve Been Put in Time Out

Mia — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:49:17 +0000

The 2010 NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Release Party was a huge success. I do not have the numbers on money raised and calenders sold. I do know that the Fontana’s was packed. All the ladies featured in the calendar were looking foxy and they were having fun signing calendars with silver sharpies. I had a wonderful time chatting with fans of the podcast, sponsors of the calender, new Twitter friends, and long time friends who came out to support.

One of the highlights of the night was seeing M and C win an Inflatable Fuck Lounger in the raffle. With only 3 raffle tickets purchased and determined to win the most ridiculous prize, they put all three tickets in for the fucking machine. The funniest thing about this win, is that this is their first sex toy. M has never even used a vibrator. And now she has a fuck lounger that comes with 3 dildos. “All I’ve ever needed is my hand and C’s cock. That is about to change,” she said. As we made our way into the night in search of more food and drink, M carried the large box with pride. “Yes, I won. That’s right, it’s a fucking machine.” As a group of us shuttled into a packed Chinese restaurant, the box busted open and parts fell everywhere. It was a moment of hysterical hysteria as we all gathered the pieces and reassembled the box. “Looks like it’s been a fun night,” someone said.

It certainly was.

A big thank you to Tess and Diva for putting together a beautiful calendar and for throwing an excellent party.

If you weren’t able to make it to the party, you can still purchase a calendar. Click here.

The photo shown on the Time Out website is an outtake from the shoot. See which photo made the cut. I’ll tease you with this. It’s an even more sizzling photo for the chilliness of January, so start your year off right.

Pleasure Tape – A Review

Mia — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:33:58 +0000

Pleasure Tape (Adam & Eve Item # A041, $9.95)

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They say, “Pleasure Tape can be used to bind, gag, blindfold, or dress the object of your affection.”
I say, “Find your sexy bind with Pleasure Tape.”

Upon opening I immediately started playing dress up by fashioning the tape around various part of my body. It was easy to try out different starting positions of the wrap, as the tape is non-sticky and reusable. I liked feeling like I could play around with the tape without being wasteful. It was easy to undo the tape from itself and wrap back up. I’m not sure how much that matters, but I couldn’t wrap the tape back around the roll in the perfection that it came in.

When my partner came in the bedroom to find black tape wrapped around my breasts and between my legs he said, “I like what you got going on with the breasts, but I am not sure about the crotch area. Let’s see what else we can do with that.”

He undid my messy bondage with ease. Then he tore of a large piece to blindfold me. The adhesive of the tape is not strong enough to hold a blindfold around my head, so he tied the tape in a knot at the back of my head. Although the tape is not sticky enough to it tear at my hair, the tape and my hair ended in a tangle in the knotting process. The bind was tight, but later as I got shifted around, the tape loosened, and the blindfold fell around my neck. The same was true for the gag.

However, the bind around my wrists stayed throughout our romp. I felt sexy wrapped in the tape. It somehow felt more artistic than being bound in cuffs, which can feel heavy, and too dungeon like if you aren’t in the right mood. Using the tape felt playful, fun and easy. The tape does not have an overly plastic smell and my partner found it easy to rip with his hands. (I had to use scissors.)

So although this product cannot hold a bind in as many ways as it advertises, I still recommend buying a roll of Pleasure Tape. Even though the tape doesn’t work so well as a blindfold or gag, it works great to bind arms and legs to each other. If your partner has a thing for duck tape, then s/he will enjoy using this product. You both will have fun dressing up and binding. Also, I think Pleasure Tape will be especially handy on trips when room in the suitcase for bondage equipment is limited.

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Mini Love Bullet – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:39:51 +0000

Mini Love Bullet (Adam & Eve Item #A694, $9.95)

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As soon as I took the Mini Love Bullet out of it’s plastic, I had to try it out. Measuring a mere 2.25″ with one on/off button and colored lavender, the toy is sweet and non-threatening. I pushed the button a couple times and nothing happened. When I opened the bullet, I found a protective sheet used to keep the batteries fresh. (Oh!) Once removed, and the bullet was reconnected, I pushed the button and was taken aback by the strong vibrations pulsing from the little thing.

I plunged the Love Bullet below my waistline. The silky smoothness of the vibrator kissed my freshly waxed pussy and my body unfurled into the sudden and direct arousal. I love this new toy, I thought.

Too small for penetration (and btw not recommended for anal play), I kept the Mini Love Bullet to the outside of my pussy, stroking it up and down, and then I held it directly over the shaft of my hood. I came hard.

The Mini Love Bullet is packed with a strong and steady punch and although it is not “whisper quiet” as described on the package, the vibrating whirl is a low moan compared to high pitched whine of other vibrating toys.

One of the nicest features about the Mini Love Bullet is that it is compact and waterproof. The toy is easy to clean off and can tuck away in your shower amongst shampoo bottles and cleansers. I keep mine next to the soap for easy access and a nice reminder to give myself some love and to share the love.

While giving my man a blowjob in the shower, I held the Love Bullet at the base of his cock, while I tickled the tip with my tongue. I ran the vibrator along his shaft and then against my cheek while my mouth engulfed his cock. The toy was easy to glide around and he loved the sensation.

He said, “I feel like my cock is having an acid trip.”

Who doesn’t want to experience giving or receiving that?

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The 2010 New York City Sex Blogger Calender (I’m in it, here’s the story)

Mia — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:17:06 +0000

Visions of Sexual Freedom: The 2010 New York City Sex Blogger Calender

2010 marks the second year that Tess and Diva have put together the New York City Sex Blogger Calender. All proceeds from the calender go to Sex Work Awareness (SWA). If you are aren’t sure what sex work awareness is all about, here is a portion of SWA mission statement:

We believe that all sex workers have a right to self-determination; to choose how we make a living and what we do with our bodies. We conduct research about sex workers and the sex industry in order to better understand it, develop public education initiatives, and advocate for the rights of sex workers.

Episode 19 – Lip Service

Mia — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:54:58 +0000

Pirates, a masseuse, and femdom.

The Office: A XXX Parody – A DVD Review

Mia — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:18:29 +0000

“The Office: an XXX Parody” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #K494, $24.95)

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If you are a fan of the scripted faux documentary TV show, The Office, then this porn is for you. The porn is well written and acted and captures the humor found in the TV show complete with rivalry between Jimmy and Dwayne (Jim and Dwight), befuddled glances to the camera from Jimmy, and “that’s what she said” jokes.

During a team meeting Michelle (Michael Scott) brings in an erotic dancer to give lap dances as a means to discuss sexual harassment. Ashlynn Brooke who plays Michelle is an excellent lead and delivers funny one-liners throughout the movie. When Michelle gets in trouble with her boss for sexually harassing employees, Michelle turns her sexual prowess on her superior. Lady Boss’ angered muttering about lawsuits quickly turns into pleasured moaning as Michelle pleases her with fingers, a vibrator, and a dildo in varying positions including 69 on Michelle’s desktop.

The sex between a sales manager and the receptionist (Jim and Pam) is hot with sensual kissing in between changing positions, spitting on fingers for lubricant, and clit rubbing during penetration. I actual think these two like to fuck each other. They make eye contact and moan like lovers enraptured with one another.

Watch your favorite couples from The Office and other office couplings get naughty on desktops and in break rooms.

As Michelle states in the movie, “I support the 3 F’s of the workplace: fun, funny, and inter-office fucking.” Get yours. I highly recommend you do.

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Episode 18 – Weekend Bound

Mia — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 07:15:40 +0000

A kinky sex retreat, a love song, and a pony and dog show.

Sex Survey

Mia — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 15:46:53 +0000

If you are age 18 or older you are invited to participate in a study called SEXPLORATIONS. We are interested in learning more about adult sexuality. Help us to do so by completing our online questionnaire; it will take about 20-45 minutes of your time. You will be entered into a drawing for one of ten $40 online gift certificates to a store of your choice from a provided list. To learn more about the study and complete the questionnaire, please visit this website: http://WWW.CHESTNYC.ORG and click the “Sexplorations” link.
If you have any questions about this research please contact José Nanín at jnanin@chestnyc.org. This research has been approved by the City University of New York Hunter College and Kingsborough Community College Institutional Review Boards for the Protection of Human Subjects.

E-Glass Screamer Glass Dildo – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:59:55 +0000

E-Glass Screamer Glass Dildo (Adam & Eve Item #H045, $49.95)

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They say, “Enter a whole new realm of sensuality as you experiment with various hot and cold sensations.”
I say, “When you are ready to step up your game. Get the Screamer.”

There are many great features to this 9″ x 1.75″ wide dildo. And fear and screaming might be one of them. I admit, I was fearful of this toy. It feels heavy (Yes, it weight 14.75 ounces) and looks so big. So I let it hang out with my other toys for a bit and warmed up with my previous glass dildo, The Crystal Crescent. Then one night I was ready for The Screamer.

I wanted to explore with something a bit bigger and with more possibilities. As if the basic benefits of a glass toy weren’t enough, the Screamer offers more. The E-Glass is hand blown and is patented to withstand extreme temperatures without cracking or breaking. So put it in the microwave or freezer for a few seconds and wait for the reaction. The glass is also scientific grade SG-1 Borosilicate which means if you drop it a few times, it most likely will not shatter. How hot it that? Feel like you are back in Chemistry class. I do and I want more. I love experimentation.

Because putting this hunk of curved pink beads into my orphus seemed like enough of a first experiment, I went for the room temperature option first. My partner had me positioned on all fours and gave me excellent forth play with his tongue, fingers, and smaller dildos. Then with a bit of lube the Screamer went it and it was divine. The curves, beads, and bulbs allow for many position options. I loved when he inserted all three beads and fucked my G-spot. Then slowly he pulled out and ran the bulb shape tip across my clit and lips. And I did, in fact, scream when this toy and my partner drove me over the edge.

So if you’ve purchased and enjoyed my last 3 reviews involving G spot and female ejaculation play, you may be ready for The Screamer. It’s worth while to build up to this toy.

And I have so much left to explore with this one. Hot, cold, anal. The E-Glass Screamer is going to be on hand for a while, stored in it’s nice pink velvet bag.

Episode 17 – Standing In the Way of Control

Mia — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:57:22 +0000

Working out the details of an open relationship.

Crystal Crescent Glass Dildo – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 19:50:08 +0000

Crystal Crescent Glass Dildo (Adam & Eve Item #F931, $29.95)

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They say, “This crystal clear glass confection is ideal for all toy users, and is a perfect choice for experimenting with glass sex toys and wands.”
I say, “The Crystal Crescent Glass Dildo looks really fucking cool on your nightstand or in your hand — fucking you, fucking him, fucking her.”

With all the discussion about health risks about using porous jelly sex toys, I have been anxious to try out a glass toy. Glass toys are easy to clean (they can be boiled to kill germs), are hypo-allergenic, and are compatible with both water based and silicone lubricants. And this dildo comes with a handy drawstring pouch. Love that! Adam & Eve eased the stress of separating and storing toys with this one. All these features are excellent, but I wondered how it would feel.

I have purchased a hard plastic vibrating dildos that ended up left my pubic bone aching. So I was wary of the 7″ long x 1″ wide and 7+ ounces of heft. To my delight I was able to insert the Crystal Crescent Glass Dildo with ease and could fuck myself without the hard material jutting against my public bone in an annoying or hurtful manner. The ease of fucking is due to the seductive curve shape of the dildo. I thought I would just insert the slender bulb and use the larger one to hold on to, but as I got more and more hot and heavy, I switched sides and used the more bulbous end to stroke my G-spot. I am happy to report that both ends offer a great grip and fuck.

The angled shaft is meant for G-spot stimulation, so if you have gotten into exploring squirting from my review of “Nina Hartley’s Guide to Female Ejaculation” this toy is a good starter. Next I will be reviewing an even bigger glass dildo that promises more internal sensation. We shall see……

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Female Ejaculation – A DVD Review

Mia — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:30:38 +0000

“Nina Hartley’s Guide to Female Ejaculation” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #6695, $19.95)

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They say, “Fascinating to men and overwhelmingly pleasurable for women, the art of female ejaculation CAN be learned.”

I say, “Nina Hartley’s guide is a must watch for those interested, intrigued, and/or turned on by female ejaculation.”

The DVD is presented in three chapters.

The first chapter is discussion based between Nina and a woman who asks poignant questions and demos her bits. Nina talks through what female ejaculation is, how exactly it works, and why some women may never squirt. Nina also dispels myths about the fluid being urine and explains how the fluid is created. Although the ladies are not experienced in acting or reading cue cards, I can overlook the awkwardness in exchange for the intimate knowledge Nina shares on the subject of squirting. I learned that many scientists believe more women have retroactive squirting due to the distance between the urethra and vaginal canal; if there is not enough room for the urethra to be exposed, the fluids remain inside, instead of squirting out. Biology is fun! Learn more in the video.

The second chapter is a sexy, slightly scientific, laboratory scene between Nina and Anna. As previously discussed in the opening segment, Nina welcomes women to explore their bodies and practice ejaculation through masturbation. Anna is very comfortable in her sexuality and is practiced in squirting. The two have excellent communication about turning Anna on and getting the fluids to come out. Nina helps Anna out by using a bevy of toys on her and also takes on a more voyeuristic role by watching Anna pleasure herself. Through varying stimulation of Anna’s G-spot (which we even a peak at via a speculum insertion) and clitoris, she squirts several times. It’s pretty cool.

The third chapter is a hetero fuck and squirt fest. It is less scientific, although still badly acted in the beginning. But once the sex gets going things become more fluid (couldn’t help myself there). Angela fucks Trent cowboy and reverse cowboy and squirts many times along the way. It is a refreshing change to see the man used as a prop to the women’s orgasm and ejaculation. Although the scene ends with the standard come shot to her face, it is great to have seen a women previously fucking with such power and vigor.

This video is a must have in your library to explore your sexuality or help your partner explore theirs.

Check out “Nurse’s Needle” for a hot story of mine about female ejaculation.

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Munch – A DVD Review

Mia — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 22:00:43 +0000

“Munch, Sinfully Savory All-Girl Action” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #4764, $29.95)

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They say, “Sneak a peak at 17 of the horniest hotties ever – wild chicks who can’t sop cravin’ creamy cooze juice.”
I say, “These chicks are horny and I think they crave anything sex related.”

Highlights for me:
Scene 1: Mouth then pussy fucking with a dildo. Dildo holder fucked her good.
Scene 2: Devil and schoolgirl costumes.
Scene 3: A well-choreographed interrogation scene with leather worship, intimidation & seduction with belt.
Scene 4: Quick, down & dirty action in a kitchen & on a library ladder.
Scene 5: Long dong fucking.
Scene 6: Muff diving on a vixen in a sexy leather corset
Scene 7: Toe sucking.
Scene 8: Girly nipple sucking.
Scene 9: Spitting on and spanking of pussy.

Clips seem like they are from pulled from the late 90’s, early 2000’s. The DVD was produced in 2004. Seeing the styling from that time period is a fun trip down memory lane. I did not care for the chatty home video style talk found in Scenes 5, 6, 8 and 9. If you tend to watch porn with the volume off like I do, the chat doesn’t matter. And if you watch with the volume on, you may find it is nice to listen to the women’s rapport with one another.

Interestingly, the bonus footage of “Munch” is a hetero fuckfest between a couple, which begins with one hot blowjob. Maybe the producers felt that after 2 hours of carpet munching, cock was a good after dinner mint. The sex between Violet Blue and Joey Ray is hot and I have found myself going back to this DVD just for this scene.

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Stormy’s Tight Pussy Masturbator – A Sex Toy Review

Mia — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 16:34:04 +0000

Stormy’s Tight Pussy Masturbator (Adam & Eve Item#K624, $24.95)

This and other adult videos can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com.

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Stormy says, “The deeper you go, the tighter I get!”
I say, “For a fun way to change up your grip, enjoy the simulation of fucking a porn star.”

I picked out this male masturbator for the “curved ergonomic design that gets tighter the deeper you go!” As Stormy says, “I’m a super-stretchy 6″ handful, stuffed with a combination of ridged and knobby stimulators to drive your dick wild! I’m open-ended for easy care, use me with water-based lube.” I had my male case study compare this toy with the previously reviewed Hand Job Stroker (Adam & Eve Item #1236, $12.95).

Here are his thoughts:

Stormy’s Tight Pussy Masturbator has a lot of advantages. It’s way more …uhhh… intense feeling than the old tried-and-true. There are a lot of internal contours that are a nice touch. There is a nice opening, too. The exterior is very wobbly, though – this one makes it very apparent that your holding a fake pussy. I guess that, in summary, I’d say that this is a very good false vagina – for all that is good and bad about that.

Reviews on the A&E website complain of the pussy being too small and breaking. My male case study has not found this to be a problem as of yet.

As someone who has fucked many women, I did enjoy sticking my lubed up fingers inside the jelly pussy. I liked feeling the contours of the canal. Although it will never be as good as the real thing, Stormy’s Tight Pussy Masturbator comes pretty close.

I recommend getting this toy and stroking yourself while you listen to my sexy sex stories. Come’on. You know you want to.

Purchase Stormy’s Tight Pussy Masturbator at www.adamandeve.com/miaontop and receive a 50% discount.

Intimate Contact – A DVD Review

Mia — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 14:54:39 +0000

“Intimate Contact” DVD (Adam & Eve Item #K316, $29.95)

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They say, “Treasure these moments and make them last, because these intimate experiences are something you will never forget.”
I say, “If you are into watching lots of oral sex between feminine, well-groomed beauties, then this DVD is for you.”

I believe the subtext of “Intimate Contact” is sisters having sex with each other. Each grouping of two women has similar features and styled to look identical with similar outfits, matching false eyelashes, makeup, and hairstyling. Some may find this offensive. I found the art direction rather titillating. Even if the subtext is not about sisters, the overall theme is pushing images of mirrored feminine Sapphic sex.

There are 7 scenes with 14 women. Each scene is shot in a different location. See lesbian sex poolside, at an empty club, and in a bedroom. There are no plots, just varying angles of licking, rubbing, and fucking by way of mouth, fingers, and occasionally toys. Most of the women featured actually looked like they were enjoying having sex with another women — believability is a key ingredient I need in porn.

My favorite pairing is Anita Pearl & Cindy Hope, the ladies of the DVD cover, the ladies who lured me into reviewing this DVD. Anita and Cindy are small-breasted sticks of women with long silky brown hair and tanned skin. They kiss, stroke, and lick one another with sweet intimacy. I was especially pleased when they moved into a 69 position — their nearly identical bodies in a yin-yang position with a perfectly manicured garden as a backdrop. It is like the perverts version of the a Anne Geddess — baby in a lettuce leaf photograph. Like Geddess’ fans, I think I will make Anita & Cindy my screen saver. How very.

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Beautiful Anal Divas 2 – A DVD review
Mia — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 18:09:42 +0000
“Beautiful Anal Divas 2″ DVD(Adam & Eve Item#H148, $14.95)
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They say, “Beauty’s in the eye of the beholder…and that’s you in this all-anal POV (point of view) movie! 6 scenes. 171 minutes.”
I say, “Hot women. And anal is not the only POV you will be having.”
The description boasts that there are 6 scenes, but really it is 6 women individually preforming varying sex acts and positions in approximately 30 minute intervals to the same man in the same room. Watching the DVD from start to finish may become boring as the women tend to have the same sequence preformed on them. Other than having anal sex, the women striptease for the camera, then some variation of the following: they give the man holding the camera a BJ, then he vaginal penetrates her, to be followed by anal penetration, another BJ, tittyfucking, anal penetration from front and back angles, another BJ, etc. etc. until he comes, usually on their face. Can’t tell if the women come or not. I think not, but they do seem to be having a good time.
I recommend watching one sequence per seating. Bree Olson, the star, is bubbly and seems to want nothing more than to take it in the ass and give a blow job after— that’s what you want in a porn star. Laurie Vargas rocks a curly bush and vinyl knee high boots in her booty shaking striptease. She is also into spitting on his cock, which I love.
If you get off on the man’s POV during sex, especially anal sex, then this is the DVD for you.
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Episode 16 – Vulnerability and Desire (Squeezed and Shucked)
Mia — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 23:16:53 +0000
Naked for the first time. 



Morning Arousal published w/ Paper Bag Press
Mia — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:43:03 +0000
Previously unpublished and not a part of the “I Want Your Sex” podcast series, this story details the intimate role playing between a heterosexual couple in D/s relationship.
Here’s an exert: “I like to feel his body and only see his arm wrapped around my body and my hand balled in his. I desire and adore his hands. Fierce, strong, and gentle, his hands feed, bathe, touch, tease, taunt, punish, poke, spank, tickle, surprise, arouse, and fuck me. Daddy’s hands are the provider of my pleasure and pain. He traces the side of my naked body with his hand…”  
Read it again and again when you purchase the e-book for only $1.99.
I will be recording the audio for the audiobook. Due later this summer. 




Love Whip – A Sex Toy Review
Mia — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 17:47:29 +0000
Love Whip (Adam & Eve Item#5901, $19.95)
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They say, “Soft as silk material lets you whip ‘em good”
I say, “For those who want to be scared by a whip, but not hurt by one.”
The Love Whip is a great starter for couples who want to explore kink. It looks more threatening than it really is, therefore, it is a great tool to play with power dynamics without much concern of flogging technique or injury. Not to say one should not have some sense of technique and safety, but you don’t have to feel like you need to take a class in order to use this whip. At least, my case study didn’t.
I found the whip to be seductive. My case study had me on all fours and tickled the whip across my back. He held the whip at it’s midpoint and spanked my pussy, which was incredible arousing. There was no sting, just the pat, like one from a gloved hand. Then, with the whip pulled taut, he ran the strands across my pussy, which soft and sweet.
When held the nylon whip feels spongy, but when my case study played with the whip on my body, it felt blissful. 
The whip has a fastener and D-ring, which allows for many storing opportunities. It looks quite sexy hanging from the back of my bedroom door. So if for nothing else, get it to spice up your bedroom decor. It can be a great way to begin discussing kink.  
Read more funny, poignant, and honest reviews at www.adamandeve.com
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Clit Flicker Cock Ring – A Sex Toy Review
Mia — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:08:02 +0000
Clit Flicker Cock Ring (Adam & Eve item #4146, $24.95)
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They say the Clit Flicker Cock Ring is a “soft erection enhancer with flickering tongue and powerful wireless stimulator.”
I say, “Ladies, get the Clit Flicker Cock Ring for excellent clitoral stimulation while he’s inside of you. It’s beautiful that he is sharing the stimulation with you by wearing the vibrator around his cock, but really the buzz is for you. Ride it.”
What is curious to me about the maker’s description is that it centers on the erection and not the women’s pleasure. I’ve heard about the benefits of wearing a cock ring, and I’m sure there are some added benefits of the Clit Flicker Cock Ring. But the real feature of this toy is the vibration, not to staying power of the cock ring. So erect enhancer, possibly. But speedy female orgasm enhancer, yes. 
After some good old fashion making out and grouping, my case study got it up and the cock ring on. (Lube was helpful in sliding the gummy PVC onto his cock) He turned on the silver bullet that vibrates at only one speed — a quick, hard, fast buzz. I straddled him, placed his cock inside of me and slid down to meet the Click Flicker. My arousal spiked when my clit came in contact with the “tongue” that is a ledge that the bullet vibrator rests behind. The stimulation is so strong and wonderful; I just wanted to sit there and soak up his cock filling my inside and the vibrations filling my outside. I didn’t even move much. Within minutes I came.
“Did that do anything for you?” I asked him.
“Not really. But I loved watching you get off. The vibrator is so strong, I could feel it running through me and into you.” 
Oh and “powerful wireless stimulator,” means it takes batteries. 3, in fact. The toy comes with 6, which is wonderfully thoughtful and may mean that the batteries wear down quickly. Mine are still running strong.
Read more funny, poignant, and honest reviews at www.adamandeve.com
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The Hand Job Stroker – A Sex Toy Review
Mia — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 05:06:33 +0000
Hand Job Stroker, (Adam & Eve Item #1236, $12.95)
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They say, “Slip your lubed erection inside this soft 5 1/2″ silicone sleeve and feel over 100 sensi-nubs work you to ecstasy! Watch your member thrust inside the clear sleeve … it stretches TEN TIMES to fit anyone!”
I say, “The abstract minimal design allows you to feel like you are not handling an imitation pussy.”
My male case study has never used a device for masturbating and was intrigued by the Hand Job Stoker. As suggested by the maker, lube definitely aided the fist pumping.

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I got aroused watching him masturbate with the silicone sleeve. He said all the “sensi-nubs” felt great, but wanted to compare it with being inside of a real pussy. Up for some scientific sex, I agreed to have my case study penetrate me then the Hand Job Stroker as many times as needed. 
Here’s what he had to report:
“I’d never tried any kind of artificial masturbator before. I was a bit skeptical. But there’s something to it. This one has all of these nubs on the inside, and with a fair amount of lube, it feels nice. I had to play around with where I placed my gripping hand. But with a little bit of practice, a nice position can be found.
Jacking off is fun, and jacking off with something giving you more of / a different sensation is nice. This is no substitute for the real thing, but it sure is a nice enhancement to simulating the real thing.
Also, I like that it’s open on both ends. I always got grossed out thinking about the fake vaginas that are closed on one end. There’s little cleanup with this, and no clogged up semen to wash out of anything.”
There you have it. 
Read more funny, poignant, and honest reviews at www.adamandeve.com
Purchase the Hand Job Stroker at www.adamandeve.com/miaontop and receive a 50% discount. 



Episode 15 – Pain of Pleasure
Mia — Sun, 24 May 2009 07:09:19 +0000
A night at a lesbian BDSM sex dungeon. 



Interview in Paper Bag Press
Mia — Wed, 13 May 2009 05:56:56 +0000
On the more literary side, check out my interview with Amy Barnes of Paper Bag Press. Find out about how I started writing erotica, my favorite character I have written about so far, my thoughts about epublishing and other activities I enjoy other than sex, sex parties, erotica, and kink (which are well covered topics in the podcast).  
Paper Bag Press Author Interview: Mia Martina 



Interview on Masocast Podcast
Mia — Wed, 13 May 2009 03:54:43 +0000
If you have not listened to the Masocast podcast, I highly recommend you start. And why not start with the latest interview featuring me called, “All Right Put It In.” Axe and I chat about how I started to go to sex parties, my sex party do’s and dont’s, male homophobia, kinky perversions and so much more. Kids and a great mix of Irish jigs, oldies, and The Smiths can be heard in the background. 
Subscribe to Masocast on 

 Or hear the interview on the Masocast website: “All Right, Put It In”



Episode 14 – She Marked Me
Mia — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 17:13:50 +0000
Gripping, spitting, grinning.



Paper Bag Press
Mia — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:13:36 +0000
Paper Bag Press, a website, offering high quality erotica in ebook and audiobook forms, was launched in February 2009. Amy Barnes, the woman behind the website, is a fantastic editor and publisher. I am happy to have work published with this start up that has potential to be a leading voice in the erotica e-publishing industry. 
My favorite thing about Paper Bag Press is the book cover art, or lack there of. The minimal cover leaves more to the imagination. 
You can purchase a copy of my story “Nurse’s Needle” for only $2.49. And although this story has been produced as an “I Want Your Sex” podcast, the print version is different. Roughly 500 words have been added to extend the sex scene between the nurse and her naughty patient. 
Here is a clip, “Nurse instructs me to sit back up so that she can check my heart rate. She draws a stethoscope from around her neck, places its buds in her ears and holds the circular end in her hand. With her other hand she separates my legs and steps toward the opening of my body. Nurse’s hand remains on my outer thigh and our smooth legs touch. Her upper body arches toward me in order to place the stethoscope at my heart. With this movement, more of Nurse’s cleavage becomes exposed;…”




Episode 13 – Under the Influence -or- Javier, part 2
Mia — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:49:29 +0000
Ice cubes, indulgence, and an unexpected ending.



Episode 12 – Under the Cover -or- Javier, part 1
Mia — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 21:54:03 +0000
Phone sex, relationship negotiation, and nude picture withholding.



Ravenous Romance
Mia — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:28:33 +0000
Raveneous Romance is a great site that offers erotica ebooks and audiobooks. I have two pieces published in the Lust Chronicles series.

Check out the RR site and for a limited time you can download a short story for free. Please support me, other erotica writers, and RR by ordering one of these books. 
The Love Notes Anthology is about sex and music.


The Lust Chronicles Anthology is about all things lustful.







Twitter me
Mia — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 20:56:05 +0000
Twitter me and find out what I am doing at all times.
 I am more boring than you think.
http://twitter.com/miaontop



Mishaps
Mia — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 17:47:25 +0000
The rub on the latest podcast, “Wanting More.”
If you were one of the first 300 to download “Wanting More” then you got “blowjob” in your episode description. Soon after the episode was published, iTunes censored the word blowjob. Sexual words are blurred out on many other podcast about sexuality. But I am paranoid of being banned from iTunes especially because most of ya’ll listen through iTunes. (But ya’ll would follow me to another podcasting site like mirpod or podcastalley, right?). Regardless, in fear, I changed the description.
If you were one of the first two 2000 to download then you got a an extra couple minutes of my read through. Experimenting with adding outtakes, one got left in the beginning. New listeners, it was not all that interesting, so don’t feel like you’ve missed anything. The funny outtake is at the end. 
Also, my Facebook account has been disabled. So in addition to being paranoid, and not catching a podcasting error, I am 350 fewer friends. All this, and the podcast isn’t all that dirty. Just wait for the xxx ones to come in the future. 
Guess I will have to check out this Twitter thing. 
Looking forward to Monday…
xxMia 



Episode 11 – Wanting More
Mia — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 22:50:19 +0000
Saving Charlie Brown and chartreuse pajamas.



Episode 10 – Hard Up
Mia — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 07:21:17 +0000
Woody Allen, a double porn star massage, breast molding and rubbing one out to love.



Episode 9 – Nurse’s Needle
Mia — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 06:24:15 +0000
The flu shot and the wet spot.



Episode 8 – Blow in the Bathroom
Mia — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:09:23 +0000
Mark Wahlberg, a dog in a clown costume, and the beginning of a good thing.



Episode 7 – Fairy Tale
Mia — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:17:44 +0000
Little Red finds her Big Bad Wolf and another single female.



Interview on The Ropecast Podcast
Mia — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:03:57 +0000
Although I haven’t done much with rope, Gray still wanted to talk. And he got a lot out of me. Hear me giggle a lot over cocktails and talk about how not to be the creepy guy at a party and discover some more of my kinks. 
Thanks for a good time, Gray. Hope we can do it again. Next time with rope. 
Check it out here.



Episode 6 – Love and BDSM
Mia — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 01:46:26 +0000
Lesbian stalking, dildo workshops, love, and roving truckers.



Episode 5 – Dancing Queen
Mia — Sat, 31 May 2008 20:36:17 +0000
Music snobbery, bouncing Rockports, and a dual for the remote.



Episode 4 – Adult Alternative
Mia — Mon, 05 May 2008 00:44:15 +0000
One hit wonders, ejaculation shame, cupid slave boys, Mr. Belvedere and stereotypes of male fantasies.



You
Mia — Thu, 01 May 2008 02:51:07 +0000
I just checked my stats and am blown away by the number of listeners. So tell me what do you like, don’t like, what to you want to hear more/less of, topics to cover, etc. Do you attend sex parties? Would you want to? What are your thoughts on sex and sexuality? 
Please email me at miaontop at gmail dot com. 
And if you don’t send an email, that’s cool. Thanks for listening. I know you are liking it as there are the same amount of listeners per episode. 
Episode #4 should be up soon. Getting a new mic so you can hear me better. 
xxmia



Wanna talk about sex, intimacy and the internet?
Mia — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 00:59:59 +0000
I have participated in survey like this before and was surprised about how much I learned about myself. This survey come via a friend and is not some fake email thing that makes promises of checks in the mail in eight weeks. It’s legit. I highly recommend taking part. xxmia
WOMEN NEEDED FOR A SURVEY ABOUT SEX, INTIMACY & THE INTERNET
Are you interested in participating in a research study about women’s perspectives and experiences with casual sex or “hooking up”?
You may be eligible to participate in the study if:
-You are female

-You reside in the United States

-Are not transgender (any stage)

-You are 18 years of age or older

-You are able to read and write English

-You have used at least one Internet website in the past year to meet your casual sexual partners
Survey respondents are eligible to enter into a random drawing to win a $100 Amazon.com gift certificate. All answers are completely confidential but an email address is required for the drawing. Your email address will never be given or sold to a third party.
I am a doctoral student at the University of California, San Francisco. I am conducting research on women’s experiences using the Internet to meet partners for the specific purpose of  “hooking up”. I am interested in women’s perspectives and experiences with these types of encounters and matters of sex and intimacy in general. The survey will take anywhere between 10-20 minutes depending upon the length of your responses.
If you wish to participate, or would like to learn more about this study, please visit the survey website:
https://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=D2O3sk3xRuve3TXcKMBoJA_3d_3d
You can read more about the research study, the survey and the drawing on the website. 



Episode 3 – Exhibitionism + Voyeurism
Mia — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 22:53:43 +0000
The sex pit, canopy beds, and getting my rocks off with Gabriella. 



Episode 2 – Secret Garden
Mia — Sun, 30 Mar 2008 07:01:00 +0000
Menage et tois bartending, a one dollar bill and a wolf tattoo introduce the cast of characters.



Episode 1 – Chocolate Legs
Mia — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 15:34:33 +0000
My first podcast, about my first sex party. Chocolate legs, a raccoon jock strap, and the squeaker.



Searching for the best in sex
Mia — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:57:22 +0000
I have had repeated interactions with sex partners, both men and women, that made me understand that others mostly thought of sex only in terms of getting off. Whereas, I am always looking to explore fantasies and play with power dynamics. I love to find ways to challenge and express myself with partners.
So who or what can meet this challenge? Once I exhausted Nerve, Match.com, Craigslist and the like, I turned to sex parties.
I live in a major metropolitan city. There have to be amazing, kinky, erotic places where one can explore and indulge in sexual fantasies, right?
I begin exploring sex parties in earnest.
I know a party is what you make of it, so I attend all parties, ranging in price, type, and exclusivity. I go to parties that are free and those that cost $500 with quarterly membership dues. I attend parties that are for women only, couples only, swingers, those into BDSM and fetish. I even include the sex parties that do not want to be labeled as sex parties. And I attend each of these parties more than once – the crowd, location, and themes often change.
So where will I find a place, person, or party to fulfill me? The podcast is my research diary. You’re with me as I find out.