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	<title>I Want Your Sex &#187; sexuality</title>
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	<itunes:subtitle>Sexy short stories. Tune in and get turned on.</itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:summary>Mia Martina&#039;s short stories detail sexual exploration, relationships, love, and kink, in a sexy and honest manner. The podcast began as a chronicle of her experiences going to NYC sex parties by herself and later in a relationship. All the stories are true, unless noted in the intro of the podcast.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
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	<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<itunes:name>Mia Martina</itunes:name>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>Episode 41 &#8211; &#8220;A Year of Sex&#8221; Hardcore</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 16:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kink, lesbian sex, and love: a chapter from A Year of Sex.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Kink, lesbian sex, and love: a chapter from A Year of Sex. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Kink, lesbian sex, and love: a chapter from A Year of Sex. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>Episode 40 &#8211; &#8220;A Year Sex&#8221; Kinky</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 05:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ultimate sex party complete with kinky spanking, BDSM, and a threesome.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>The ultimate sex party complete with kinky spanking, BDSM, and a threesome.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The ultimate sex party complete with kinky spanking, BDSM, and a threesome.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>KickStart to MiniGasm</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/10/18/kickstart-to-minigasm/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=kickstart-to-minigasm</link>
		<comments>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/10/18/kickstart-to-minigasm/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 02:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[News]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Kickstarter]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Concept: Adult Fiction in a Flash &#8211; A collection of super short erotic tales with topics ranging tame to tabu. The Format: 25 adult themed stories, 1000 words or less. Book Information: Release date is scheduled for January 2012. To be released in both print and Ebook formats. With your help MiniGasm will go [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Concept:<br />
Adult Fiction in a Flash &#8211; A collection of super short erotic tales with topics ranging tame to tabu.</p>
<p>The Format:<br />
25 adult themed stories, 1000 words or less. </p>
<p>Book Information:<br />
Release date is scheduled for January 2012.<br />
To be released in both print and Ebook formats.</p>
<p>With your help MiniGasm will go to press!<br />
Funding for this project runs from now until November 30th, 2011.</p>
<p>Catherine Kade, the woman behind MiniGasm, is hoping the all or nothing fund-raising power of Kickstarter will garner her the $3933 needed to make this book possible. Consider funded a buck or twenty. Cause, who wouldn&#8217;t like a MiniGasm? </p>
<p>Kick <a href="http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1821769757/minigasms-adult-fiction-in-a-flash" target="_blank">MiniGasm</a> a buck here. </p>
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		<title>Episode 38 &#8211; Modern Love</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/09/25/episode-38-modern-love/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-38-modern-love</link>
		<comments>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/09/25/episode-38-modern-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 04:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sex, heartache, a cucumber, and an ashtray.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sex, heartache, a cucumber, and an ashtray. </p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Sex, heartache, a cucumber, and an ashtray. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Sex, heartache, a cucumber, and an ashtray. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Episode 36 &#8211; Centerpiece</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/07/13/episode-36-centerpiece/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-36-centerpiece</link>
		<comments>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/07/13/episode-36-centerpiece/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 02:23:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A dinner party for exhibitionists and voyeurs.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A dinner party for exhibitionists and voyeurs. </p>
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		<itunes:duration>0:23:34</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>A dinner party for exhibitionists and voyeurs. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>A dinner party for exhibitionists and voyeurs. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Pleasurists #127</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/04/26/pleasurists-127/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=pleasurists-127</link>
		<comments>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/04/26/pleasurists-127/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2011 19:03:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[News]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Beauty on the rocks by I-V-S Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. Did you miss Pleasurists #126? Read it all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img src="http://pleasurists.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Beauty_on_the_rocks_by_I_V_S-301x450.jpg" alt="" title="Beauty_on_the_rocks_by_I_V_S" width="301" height="450" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2425" /><br />
<em><a href="http://i-v-s.deviantart.com/art/Beauty-on-the-rocks-121815427">Beauty on the rocks</a> by <a href="http://i-v-s.deviantart.com/">I-V-S</a></em></center></p>
<p>Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and <a title="sex toy reviews" href="http://pleasurists.com/">sex toy reviews</a> that came out in the last seven days.  If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/Pleasurists">RSS Feed</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/Pleasurists">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p>Did you miss Pleasurists #126?  <a href="">Read it all here</a>.  Do you have a review for Pleasurists #128? Be sure to read the <a href="http://pleasurists.com/guidelines/">submission guidelines</a> and then use the <a href="http://pleasurists.com/submission/">submission form</a> to submit before Sunday May 1st @ 11:59pm Pacific.</p>
<p><strong>Want a shiny new toy?  All you’ve got to do is enter.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/?p=1772">Win a Massager, a Vibrator or a Rabbit.</a> Deadline: April 27th @ 12pm Eastern.</li>
<li><a href="http://duskinchains.com/2011/04/raffle-american-cancer-society-and-relay-for-life/">Radical Relay for Life Raffle</a> Deadline: April 29th @ Midnight Pacific.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.buzzonvibes.com/2011/04/starlet-toyfriend-giveaway.html">Starlet Toyfriend Giveaway</a> Deadline: April 29th.</li>
<li><a href="http://fleurderenaissance.blogspot.com/2011/04/25-edenfantasys-gift-card-giveaway.html">$25 EdenFantasys Gift Card Giveaway</a> Deadline: April 30th.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.sextoy.com/reviews_contest.php">Sex Toy Reviewers Shopping Spree Contest</a> Deadline: April 30th @ 11:59pm Pacific.</li>
<li><a href="http://popmycherryreview.com/sex-news/april-green-sex-toy-month%E2%80%94sex-toy-contest-give-away%E2%80%9430-toys-30-days/">April is Green Sex Toy Month! 30 Toys for 30 Days</a> Deadline: April 30th.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/5992/contest-win-a-butterfly-vibrator-from-nasstoys-of-new-york/">Win a Butterfly Vibrator</a> Deadline: April 30th.</li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/giveaway-trust-massage-oil/">Giveaway: Trust Massage Oil</a> Deadline: May 1st.</li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5437">Groovy Chick Giveaway!</a> Deadline: May 6th @ Noon Central.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.buzzonvibes.com/2011/04/suede-fantasy-kit-giveaway.html">Suede Fantasy Kit Giveaway</a> Deadline: May 6th.</li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-giveaway-pub-crawl/">Pub Crawl Passport</a> Deadline: May 10th.</li>
<li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2011/04/somewhere-over-rainbow-is-lgbtqi-pride.html">Somewhere Over the Rainbow is a LGBTQI Pride-Inspired Dildo Just for You!</a> Deadline: May 25th @ 11am Central.</li>
<li><a href="http://lotionspotionsvibes.blogspot.com/2011/04/coochy-rash-free-all-over-body-shaving.html">Coochy Shave Gift Pack Giveaway</a> Deadline: May 31st.</li>
<li><a href="http://exploringintimacy.com/2011/04/12/win-arousal-gel/">Win Blossom Organics Arousal Gel from Babeland.com!</a> Deadline: May 31st @ 11:59pm.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.crystaldelights.com/charity.html">Crystal Causes $12,000 sex toy giveaway &#038; community fundraiser</a> Deadline: July 31st.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Editor</strong><br />
<a href="http://wantonlotus.com/">Scarlet Lotus</a></p>
<p>On to the reviews…</p>
<p><strong>Vibrators</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://abedroomblog.com/?p=402">Eroscillator</a> by <a href="http://abedroomblog.com/">the bedroom blogger</a></li>
<li><a href="http://neatlysortedmess.blogspot.com/2011/04/vanity-vr5-by-jopen.html">Jopen Vanity Vr5</a> by <a href="http://neatlysortedmess.blogspot.com/">Kaijah</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5350">Icicles No. 16</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li>
<li><a href="http://dirtysexythoughts.wordpress.com/2011/03/27/review-cal-exotics-foreplay-ice/">Foreplay Ice</a> by <a href="http://dirtysexythoughts.wordpress.com/">Angel deSanguine</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5252">Jopen Vanity Vr9</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li>
<li><a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/604614428/a-new-twist-on-an-old-fav-meet-pulsing-peter-rabbit/">Pulsing Peter Rabbit</a> by <a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/">Bella</a></li>
<li><a href="http://funwithsammi.com/?p=2385">Menage a Trois Triple Tongue Tickler</a> by <a href="http://funwithsammi.com/">Sammi</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-pocket-fairy-mini-usb/">Fairy Pocket Mini</a> by <a href="http://sextoygeek.net/">Lucid Obsession</a></li>
<li><a href="http://graphic-details.net/reviews/jumbo-11-inch-massager-sex-toy-review/">Jumbo 11inch Massager</a> by <a href="http://graphic-details.net/">Mr. Marvelous</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-we-vibe-tango/">We Vibe Tango</a> by <a href="http://sextoygeek.net/">Lucid Obsession</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kitoconnell.com/review-happyangel/">Happy Angel</a> by <a href="http://kitoconnell.com/">Kit O’Connel</a></li>
<li><a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/604614421/multiply-your-luck-with-the-lucky-13/">Lucky 13</a> by <a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/">Bella</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lucylemonade.com/2011/04/24/couture-patina/">Petite Couture Patina</a> by <a href="http://lucylemonade.com/">LucyLemonade</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Dildos</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2011/04/thats-one-sexy-alieninsect-review-of.html">Bad Dragon Karabos</a> by <a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/">True Pleasures</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5348">Tantus G-Force</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/blog/holy-hotness-just-in-time-for-easter-the-jackhammer-jesus-dildo.html">Jackhammer Jesus</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.diyorgasms.co.uk/njoy-pure-wand/">njoy Pure Wand</a> by <a href="http://www.diyorgasms.co.uk/">Steve</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/?p=2102">Tantus Mikey O2</a> by <a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/">Toys in Love</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Anal Toys</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/2011/04/aneros-vice-review-100-prostate.html">Aneros Vice</a> by <a href="http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/">Jake Holden</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kittenstoys.wordpress.com/2011/04/21/review-doc-johnson-sasha-grey-signature-plug-medium/">Sasha Grey Signature Plug</a> by <a href="http://kittenstoys.wordpress.com/">Pixel Kitten</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/?p=2128">Fun Factory Duke</a> by <a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/">Toys in Love</a></li>
<li><a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/2011/04/24/pop-it-on-in-for-a-good-time/">Pop Plug</a> by <a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/">Kate</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, &#038; etc.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://bzzingbee.com/?p=446">Sliquid Sea</a> by <a href="http://bzzingbee.com/">Bzzingbee</a></li>
<li><a href="http://purelysullied.com/?p=211">Sliquid Swirl Cherry Vanilla</a> by <a href="http://purelysullied.com/">Lithaewyn</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.buzzonvibes.com/2011/04/lelo-personal-moisturizer.html">LELO Personal Moisturizer</a> by <a href="http://www.buzzonvibes.com/">buzzvibe</a></li>
<li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2011/04/because-healthy-breasts-are-beautiful.html">Blossom Organics Revitalizing Breast Exam Cream</a> by <a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/">True Pleasures</a></li>
<li><a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/2011/04/24/lelo-flickering-touch-massage-oil/">LELO Flickering Touch Massage Oil</a> by <a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/">Kate</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>BDSM/Fetish</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-bad-kitty-collar/">Bad Kitty Collar</a> by <a href="http://sextoygeek.net/">Lucid Obsession</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Adult Books/Games</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://purrversatility.blogspot.com/2011/04/review-healing-sex-book.html">Healing Sex</a> by <a href="http://purrversatility.blogspot.com/">Kitty Stroker</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5250">XXXopoly</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-giveaway-pub-crawl/">Pub Crawl Passport</a> by <a href="http://sextoygeek.net/">Lucid Obsession</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sextoygeek.net/index.php/review-sexsmarts/">SexSmarts</a> by <a href="http://sextoygeek.net/">Lucid Obsession</a></li>
<li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=5162">Cosmo’s Guide to Red-Hot Sex</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Adult DVDs &#038; Porn</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/2011/04/19/gushing-all-up-in-here/">Gush: The Official Guide to the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation</a> by <a href="http://onintimacyreviews.wordpress.com/">Kate</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.miaontop.com/2011/04/20/girls-desired-a-dvd-review/">Girls Desired</a> by <a href="http://www.miaontop.com/">Mia Martina</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/featured-movies/femme-core.html">Femme Core</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">The Porn Librarian</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/featured-movies/orgy-of-the-dolls.html">Orgy of the Dolls</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">J.D. Bauchery</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/featured-movies/sex-and-submission-28-featuring-mark-davis-and-marie-luv.html">Sex and Submission 28</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">Ginger Leigh</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/featured-movies/minute-man-32-hold-tight.html">Minute Man 32 – Hold Tight</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">The Porn Librarian</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/featured-movies/tristan-taorminos-rough-sex-3-adriannas-dangerous-mind.html">Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 3: Adrianna’s Dangerous Mind</a> by <a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">J.D. Bauchery</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Lingerie</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/2011/04/peepshow-princess-wonderland/">Peepshow Princess Panties</a> by <a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/">Red Vinyl Kitty</a></li>
<li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2011/04/anime-panties-review-of-mint-shimapan.html">Mint Shimapan Panty &#038; Half Top Set</a> by <a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/">True Pleasures</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/2011/04/double-agent-kitty/">Double Agent</a> by <a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/">Red Vinyl Kitty</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21263&#038;reviewid=32469#customer_reviews">Plus Size Leopard Print Mesh Camisole Set</a> by <a href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/">silverdrop</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/2011/04/so-cute-but-not-for-me/">Pink Mesh Zebra Teddy</a> by <a href="http://www.the-sub-mission.com/">Red Vinyl Kitty</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Miscellaneous</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/?p=2068">Stormy Leather La Femme</a> by <a href="http://www.jespersunivers.com/toys/">Toys in Love</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.redsneakerdiaries.com/?p=912">Wand Controller</a> by <a href="http://www.redsneakerdiaries.com/">Red</a></li>
</ul>
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		<title>Episode 32 &#8211; Tell Me What I Want To Hear</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/03/27/episode-32-tell-me-what-i-want-to-hear/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-32-tell-me-what-i-want-to-hear</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2011 19:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The suspense and sting of a new partner.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>The suspense and sting of a new partner.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The suspense and sting of a new partner.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Episode 31 &#8211; In the Mix</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/02/10/episode-31-in-the-mix/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-31-in-the-mix</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2011 22:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we choose them, sometimes they choose us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we choose them, sometimes they choose us. </p>
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		<itunes:duration>0:33:19</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Sometimes we choose them, sometimes they choose us. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Sometimes we choose them, sometimes they choose us. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Episode 30 &#8211; In Her Bed</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2011/01/06/episode-30-in-her-bed/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-30-in-her-bed</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 05:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The timing of sex and sweet nothings.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The timing of sex and sweet nothings. </p>
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		<itunes:duration>0:34:59</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>The timing of sex and sweet nothings. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The timing of sex and sweet nothings. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Episode 29 &#8211; November BedPost Confessions</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2010/11/29/episode-29-november-bedpost-confessions/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-29-november-bedpost-confessions</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 09:37:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Austin&#8217;s BedPost Confessions: stories on oral sex, an attempted threesome, and what one poetry slam champ would teach his son about sex. And, of course, confessions from the audience.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From Austin&#8217;s <a href="http://www.bedpostconfessions.com/" target="_blank">BedPost Confessions</a>: stories on oral sex, an attempted threesome, and what one poetry slam champ would teach his son about sex. And, of course, confessions from the audience.</p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>From Austin&#8217;s BedPost Confessions: stories on oral sex, an attempted threesome, and what one poetry slam champ would teach his son about sex. And, of course, confessions from the audience.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>From Austin&#8217;s BedPost Confessions: stories on oral sex, an attempted threesome, and what one poetry slam champ would teach his son about sex. And, of course, confessions from the audience.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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		<title>Episode 28 &#8211; Brunch Seduction</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2010/10/29/episode-28/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-28</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 22:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A flame rekindled and high heel boots.]]></description>
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		<itunes:duration>0:21:18</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>A flame rekindled and high heel boots.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>A flame rekindled and high heel boots.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>Coming Out: I Like My Pseudonym</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2010 02:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My recent trip back to New York City coincided with The NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Party and An Intimate Evening with Carol Queen — two great events put on by Tied Up Events. Ms. Queen led a discussion with about twenty sex bloggers and podcasters on the topic, Exhibitionism in the Age of the Internet. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My recent trip back to New York City coincided with The NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Party and An Intimate Evening with <a href="http://www.carolqueen.com/" target="_blank">Carol Queen</a> — two great events put on by <a href="http://tiedupevents.com/" target="_blank">Tied Up Events</a>. Ms. Queen led a discussion with about twenty sex bloggers and podcasters on the topic, Exhibitionism in the Age of the Internet. Aside from having total podcasting pride to be in the same room with <a href="http://ropecast.net/" target="_blank">Graydancer</a>, <a href="http://masocast.com/" target="_blank">Unspeakable Axe</a>, and <a href="http://freedomoffetish.com/" target="_blank">Raven Lightholme</a>, I enjoyed hearing from other sex positive folks about their stance on identity. </p>
<p>Much of the discussion centered on the pros and cons of creating work under pseudonyms. It seemed the general consensus was that people would like to not have two identities, but the reality of getting fired from one’s “real job” was far to great to risk. <a href="http://www.beingshameless.com/" target="_blank">Pamela Madsen</a> shared her story about getting fired from her job once her blog was revealed. She has since merged her identities, produced a book under her real name about her journey, sexual and otherwise, and gave it to her new employer essentially saying, “Read this and fire me if you want. I don’t want this coming out later.” She has remained employed. </p>
<p>It is stories like Ms. Madsen&#8217;s that can inspire more to come out. Much can be gained by sex bloggers creating work under their real name. Then the fill in the blank phrase about marginalization could be, “I have a friend who is a: sex blogger, sex worker, in an open marriage, into kink, etc.” With any movement, visibility breeds change. I applaud those who are able to come out from the pseudonym and merge identities and those who never even took up an alias in the first place. As for me, I like having two identities.</p>
<p>Listeners of my podcast might be surprised to know that I am actually a private person. Often I am asked why I would write and record about my sex life. Starting I Want Your Sex just seemed like a natural progression for me. Like most sex positive people, I was the friend that people turned to for relationship and sex advice. I accompanied many to sex shops to buy their first toy. Being open and honest is who I am. And I have strict separation about mixing the personal and professional.</p>
<p>In a work environment, I am not the one talking about all the sordid details of my weekend. For a long time many people I worked with did not even know I was in a relationship. I just don’t bring my personal life to work. If I got drunk, had a fight, or great sex with my partner, you are not going to hear me talking about it at the water cooler. Because I like the separation, it made sense that I would create a podcast under another name. Call me crazy, but it is preferable to me that those I work with do not know how I like to get fucked. Obvious concerns about safety were an issue too. But also having a nomdeplume is cool.  </p>
<p>As a kid, I thought it was the coolest thing ever that the author of <em>Silas Marner</em> was a woman and George Elliot was a pseudonym. Granted the fact that George Elliot and, more recently, J.K. Rowling write under masculine or disguised feminine names is more of a comment on how our culture sees gender, but still I like the use of a pen name. </p>
<p>I didn’t remember my middle school desire to have an alias until a year into producing content as Mia. “Well, there you have it,” I said to my thirteen-year-old self with a big grin. “You got your wish.”</p>
<p>In honor of <a href="http://www.hrc.org/ncod/" target="_blank">National Coming Out Day</a>, I acknowledge that I do not feel closeted by my pen name. All those close to me know of my smut writing and I even told my previous employer about the ‘cast. I am open with my family about all aspects of my life including my non-monogamous relationship. They celebrate my struggles and victories and they are proud that I call myself a writer because they are writers as well. One day I hope to share some of my work with them. But for now I like to keep the separation with the knowledge that they can’t Google my alias and discover the dirty secrets that I make public.  </p>
<p>For now, I will keep two names because I like it. Whether under a pseudonym or not, I will always speak honestly and openly about sex. I started the podcast because I wanted to give people a window into the sex party world and I hoped to inspire others to be sexually open and exploratory, whatever that means for them. I aim to continue doing just that.   </p>
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		<title>BedPost Confessions</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2010/09/06/bedpost-confessions/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=bedpost-confessions</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 16:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week kicks off a new reading series I am doing with fellow smut writers, Sadie Smythe, Rosie Q, and Julie Gillis. I feel very fortunate to have connected with these ladies so quickly after my move to Austin. We are pioneering the untapped Austin erotica market. I see this venture as a new experiment [...]]]></description>
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<p>This week kicks off a new reading series I am doing with fellow smut writers, <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sadie Smythe</a>, <a href="http://sayprettybird.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Rosie Q</a>, and <a href="http://www.juliegillis.com/" target="_blank">Julie Gillis</a>. </p>
<p>I feel very fortunate to have connected with these ladies so quickly after my move to Austin. We are pioneering the untapped Austin erotica market. I see this venture as a new experiment and opportunity to forge new beginnings and to create an environment that will spark discussion about sexuality. I hope all those attending will be entertained, aroused, and ready to come back the following month. Aside from the four of us reading, entertainment will be provided by the Dumb Bondage Clowns. See our website for more details. </p>
<p>If you are in the Austin area, please come by. Otherwise, just help to spread the BedPost Confessions word. </p>
<p>Details:<br />
When — Thursday September 9th and continuing on every 2nd Thursday of the month.<br />
Where — The United States Art Authority (ext to the Spider House), 2906 Fruth Street Austin, TX 78705<br />
Time — 8-10pm<br />
Cost — Free!</p>
<p>Our website <a href="http://bedpostconfessions.com/" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
Facebook page <a href="http://www.facebook.com/BedpostConfessions" target="_blank">here. </a></p>
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		<title>Episode 26 &#8211; Five-Minute Porn Star</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 19:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From the Fast Girls anthology a reading of Five-Minute Porn Star by Jacqueline Applebee.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From the <a href="http://fastgirlsbook.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Fast Girls</a> anthology a reading of Five-Minute Porn Star by <a href="http://writing-in-shadows.co.uk/" target="_blank">Jacqueline Applebee.</a></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>From the Fast Girls anthology a reading of Five-Minute Porn Star by Jacqueline Applebee.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Mia Martina&#039;s short stories detail sexual exploration, relationships, love, and kink, in a sexy and honest manner. The podcast began as a chronicle of her experiences going to NYC sex parties by herself and later in a relationship. All the stories are true, unless noted in the intro of the podcast.</itunes:summary>
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		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Episode 25 &#8211; Confessions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions.]]></description>
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		<itunes:duration>0:16:32</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Another window in. Personal and podcasting developments. Announcements of sorts that I am calling confessions. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Playful Ties &#8211; A Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 15:57:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Playful Ties (Adam &#038; Eve Item #M083, $14.95) This and other fun items can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. Hopeful this won’t be the most expensive lingerie you purchase for someone special, however it is nice to make sexy purchases that won’t break [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Playful Ties (Adam &#038; Eve Item #M083, $14.95)</p>
<p>This and other fun items can be purchased from <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com.</a> </p>
<p>Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/ties.jpg" alt="ties" title="ties" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-919" /></a></p>
<p>Hopeful this won’t be the most expensive lingerie you purchase for someone special, however it is nice to make sexy purchases that won’t break the bank. The key word with this product is playful. This is a set you could have fun with on a vacation, at a sex party, or camping and I doubt you would feel heart broken or guilty if the set went missing. And there is something to be said for that.</p>
<p>The Playful Ties set includes wrist and ankle cuffs, a G-string, and a choker all in the same teal lace with black satin ribbons. If the choker fastened with a cute button, I might be more inclined to wear to. Instead it fastens with a large Velcro square — never the most seductive material. And the G-string is nothing to write home about. So my advice is to toss aside the G-string and choker and focus on the wrist and ankle cuffs.</p>
<p>I like cutesy girly things with lace, ribbons, and bows so wearing the cuffs made me feel preciously decorated. And because the lace is stretchy, these cuffs are more for decoration than actually restraintment. No matter the tie, I could easily slip my wrists out of the cuffs. But again, this is supposed to be a playful set.</p>
<p>My preferred use of the ties is to wear the ankle and wrist cuffs when giving head. Seeing the bright teal lace and loops of black satin mingle next to his cock gave me a rush. Sure I could wrestle out of the lace, but why would I want to? With these ties I was decorating more than just my mouth. </p>
<p>I recommend purchasing the Playful Ties if you are beginning to explore bondage, like lingerie, but don’t have a lot of cash, or need something fun to pack on your next trip.</p>
<p>Purchase Playful Ties at <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com/miaontop</a> and receive a 50% discount.</p>
<p>Read more reviews at <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com</a></p>
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		<title>Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse &#8211;  A DVD Review</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2010/05/15/jenna-jameson-is-the-masseuse-%e2%80%94-a-dvd-review/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=jenna-jameson-is-the-masseuse-%25e2%2580%2594-a-dvd-review</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 20:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse&#8221; DVD (Adam &#038; Eve Item # 4869, $39.95) This and other fun items can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. The Masseuse could easily be renamed “How Creepy Guys Become Stalkers” because as much as the storyline is about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse&#8221; DVD (Adam &#038; Eve Item # 4869, $39.95)</p>
<p>This and other fun items can be purchased from <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com.</a> </p>
<p>Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/masseuse.jpg" alt="masseuse" title="masseuse" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-898" /></a><br />
The Masseuse could easily be renamed “How Creepy Guys Become Stalkers” because as much as the storyline is about a masseuse experimenting with giving “happy endings,” the plot more heavily revolves around a socially awkward virgin with bondage fantasies. America’s porn sweetheart, Jenna Jameson, plays Barbara the masseuse and Justin Sterling plays creepy guy Jim. Interesting note, Jenna Jameson and Justin Sterling were married during the making of this porn. </p>
<p>Shot on 35mm, the director shoots nice sunlight backed shots and tries to make this more of a movie than typical porn. Movie, it might be, but slow going and with horrible editing it is. The splicing between sex positions, characters, and plot lines becomes laughable at some points. What begins as an evening bathroom bondage girl on girl show for Jim ends with a morning strap on fuck fest with Justin nowhere to be found. In the morning when Jim walks in on Barbara and friend, Barbara says, “This is Helen.” Why an introduction had not been made hours and hours before it is unclear.</p>
<p>But that is the charm of porn — laughable scenarios and bad acting. What makes this one worth it is the rope bondage scene between Jim and Barbara. The chemistry between the two is palpable. When Jim commands Barbara to “spread your legs” one can sense how much his authority turns her on. They are no longer Jim and Barbara; they are Jenna and Justin, a couple very much in love who adore pleasing one another. </p>
<p>Jenna looks to-die-for naked except for black collar, black spike heels, and green rope laced through her collar and around her entire body. With a metal dental mouth gag keeping Jenna’s mouth a gapping hole, Justin teases Jenna with an assortment of props including a flogger and glass dildo. The scene is hot, hot, hot and well worth the purchase. Also, worth watching are the hand and blowjobs Jenna gives Justin. These scenes were used in a blowjob class I took at Babeland on how to give good head.  </p>
<p>The rest of the flick is pure entertainment. Watch the Masseuse remake with Jenna Jameson and the original from the 80’s (included in the DVD) when you want a laugh with your friends. Watch the sex parts with Jenna Jameson and Justin Sterling when you want to get turned on. </p>
<p>Purchase &#8220;Jenna Jameson Is The Masseuse&#8221; at <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com/miaontop</a> and receive a 50% discount.</p>
<p>Read more reviews at <a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miaontop&#038;oc=50landing" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com</a></p>
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		<title>Episode 24 &#8211; Sex Reporter</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2010 16:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interrupting a threesome for answers, latex coverings, and new beginnings.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Interrupting a threesome for answers, latex coverings, and new beginnings. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Interrupting a threesome for answers, latex coverings, and new beginnings. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
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		<title>10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator &#8211; A Sex Toy Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 20:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator (Adam &#038; Eve #Item K709) This and other toys can be purchased from http://adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. And on orders placed through Valentine’s Day, you will also receive Adam &#038; Eve&#8217;s Romance Kit for FREE. The kit includes a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator  (Adam &#038; Eve #Item K709)</p>
<p>This and other toys can be purchased from <a href="http://adamandeve.com" target="_blank">http://adamandeve.com</a>.</p>
<p>Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. And on orders placed through Valentine’s Day, you will also receive Adam &#038; Eve&#8217;s Romance Kit for FREE. The kit includes a toy for him, a special massager for her and a little something we know you’ll both enjoy! And to top it off you will also receive a FREE adult DVD and FREE shipping on your entire order!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/remote.jpg" alt="remote" title="remote" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-790" /></a></p>
<p>I was expecting a lot from the Remote Control Bullet. The 10 different pulsation patterns didn’t intrigue me as much as the remote control feature. The idea that my partner could control when I would got buzzed from as far away as 25 feet filled me with excitement. I started thinking about all the different scenarios we can use this toy.</p>
<p>I tested the vibe to make sure it worked. The pulsations felt good in my hand. The toy is made out of the same “touch coating” as my previously reviewed Mini Love Bullet, which is one of my favorite vibes. Like the Mini Bullet, the Remote Control Bullet is phthalates free and waterproof. Love that. </p>
<p>Once I inserted the Bullet, I handed the remote to my male case study. He likes things with buttons and immediately starting pushing the controller that varies the pulsations. The vibration is not terribly strong and did not jolt me with its power. This may or may not be a good thing for some people. I like a strong vibe for my clit, but prefer milder internal vibration stimulation. </p>
<p>Sure enough the remote control worked up to 25 feet away. The buzz traveled through rooms, closed doors, my jeans, and my panties. It is not completely silent, but only emits a low drone. If in a loud environment the toy would not be heard at all. I couldn’t distinguish between the pulsations patterns, but in the end it didn’t matter. I was more turned on by the control my case study had than the actual sensation of the Bullet. He had great timing of when to turn the Bullet on and off. </p>
<p>This toy was definitely good for foreplay, but without other sexual activity, I found it hard to reach an orgasm from the Bullet alone. It is a fun toy to pack in your purse and play with in public. The anticipation of when the button will be pushed is the true eroticism of the Remote Control 10 Function Bullet. </p>
<p>Purchase 10 Function Remote Control Bullet Vibrator at <a href="www.adamandeve.com/miaontop">www.adamandeve.com/miaontop</a> and receive a 50% discount.</p>
<p>Read more reviews at www.adamandeve.com</p>
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		<title>Ultimate Stroker Beads &#8211; A Sex Toy Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ultimate Stroker Beads (Adam &#038; Eve Item #A970 $9.95) This and other toys can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. And on orders placed through Valentine’s Day, you will also receive Adam &#038; Eve&#8217;s Romance Kit for FREE. The kit includes a toy for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ultimate Stroker Beads (Adam &#038; Eve Item #A970 $9.95)</p>
<p>This and other toys can be purchased from <a href="www.adamandeve.com" target="_blank">www.adamandeve.com</a>.</p>
<p>Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. And on orders placed through Valentine’s Day, you will also receive Adam &#038; Eve&#8217;s Romance Kit for FREE. The kit includes a toy for him, a special massager for her and a little something we know you’ll both enjoy! And to top it off you will also receive a FREE adult DVD and FREE shipping on your entire order!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/beads.jpg" alt="beads" title="beads" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-774" /></a></p>
<p>I was a little misled by the name of this product. I thought the Ultimate Stroker Beads would be a great male masturbator toy. Then I read the box and I realized it was more of a cock ring than masturbator. My male case study has not used a cock ring and he was hesitant about this one. I thought it would be his style being that he used to wear a beaded chain fan pull as a bracelet. When I reminded him of this, a smile crept over his face. He said he would try the toy out.<br />
We were in a bit of a quickie situation; we had to be at a dinner party in less than an hour. Going for the sure fire techniques that we&#8217;ve mastered we got each other ramped up. Then he reached for it — The Ultimate Stroker Beads.<br />
“I thought I would put it on,” I said and reached for his cock. But it was too late. He was leashed up.  His cock looked pretty hot all fancied up.<br />
“What’s it like to stroke yourself with it on?” I asked.<br />
It was delicious to watching his fist wrap about the beaded portion of his cock. However, it did not feel so good for him. One stroke up and then back down and he was done with that.<br />
“That hurts. I have a better idea on how to use it,” he said and pulled my legs in the air. He positioned The Beads at the base of his cock and brought his tip to my labia. He ran the head of his cock up and down my lips like he knows I like.<br />
“What do the Beads feel like? Is it working like a cock ring? You know that the cock ring is supposed to suppress the blood flowing to the cock, which makes for a longer and stronger orgasm.”<br />
“Yeah. I know. We’re not writing the review now. No more questions,” he commanded.<br />
“Sorry,” I said. The last syllable was dragged out into a moan — he was inside of me.<br />
The deeper he drove, the more the beads come in contact with my clit. A-Ha. Maybe this was the true gem of this toy. I like it.<br />
I will leave the rest of our sex to your imagination. But here are some final thoughts about the toy. </p>
<p>The Ultimate Stroker Beads:<br />
•	didn’t work so well as a masturbator or a cock ring. The beading is too hard for stroking and the elasticity too lose to really restrict the blood flow like a cock ring.<br />
•	worked really well as a fun experiment. It was enjoyable to try something new that will not break the bank.<br />
•	felt good on our genitalia because we were mostly hairless. If not hairless, I think hair would get caught in the elastic beading.<br />
•	is great for a bit of extra external stimulation for her. </p>
<p>Because he said it didn’t feel like anything in particular to have it on and because I think he looks hot wearing it and I like the way it feels, you can bet we will be using this one again.  </p>
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		<title>Episode 22 &#8211; Ladies Liplock</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Girls Gone Wild: The Madonna and Brazilian edition.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Girls Gone Wild: The Madonna and Brazilian edition.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Girls Gone Wild: The Madonna and Brazilian edition.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Episode 21 &#8211; Sleep Tight</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Frills and naughtiness. The Lonely Doll by Dare Wright]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Frills and naughtiness. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Lonely-Doll-Dare-Wright/dp/0395899265/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1260858046&#038;sr=8-1" target="_blank"><em>The Lonely Doll</em></a> by Dare Wright </p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Frills and naughtiness. The Lonely Doll by Dare Wright </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Frills and naughtiness. The Lonely Doll by Dare Wright </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>Podcast</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Tristan Taormino&#8217;s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio &#8211; A DVD Review</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2009/12/12/tristan-taorminos-expert-guide-to-oral-sex-fellatio-%e2%80%94-a-dvd-review/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=tristan-taorminos-expert-guide-to-oral-sex-fellatio-%25e2%2580%2594-a-dvd-review</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 19:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tristan Taormino&#8217;s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio (Adam &#038; Eve Item #F898, $29.95) This and other adult videos can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. As a fan of Tristan Taormino&#8217;s work, including her Village Voice column, her most recent book on open [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tristan Taormino&#8217;s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio (Adam &#038; Eve Item #F898, $29.95)</p>
<p>This and other adult videos can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com.</p>
<p>Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/sam_0214.jpg" alt="fellatio" title="fellatio" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-723" /></a></p>
<p>As a fan of Tristan Taormino&#8217;s work, including her Village Voice column, her most recent book on <a href="http://www.puckerup.com/?cPath=&#038;products_id=95&#038;tpid=8" target="_blank">open relationships</a>, and, of course, her book <a href="http://www.puckerup.com/?cPath=&#038;products_id=314&#038;tpid=8" target="_blank">The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women</a>, I am always interested in Tristan’s viewpoint and education. The DVD &#8220;Expert Guide to Oral Sex Part Two: Fellatio&#8221; did not let me down. </p>
<p>The DVD begins with Tristan giving a workshop to 10 women, some of who look like they might prefer to be in between the legs of a woman rather than a man. But when Tristan brings out Christian and Roxy to demonstrate some techniques all audience members are actively engaged. Occasionally the camera pans to the faces of women who are licking their lips, shifting their bodies forward, and gripping at their knees, suggesting that that would like a turn at Christian’s cock. </p>
<p>Previous to the live demo, Tristan discussed the male anatomy (circumcised and uncircumcised) and it’s arousal points using excellent illustrations. The body parts are then diagrammed on a still frame of Christian’s naked body in position to receive head from Roxy. Having the key areas pinpointed makes it easy to be knowledgeable where the giver is focusing her attention. Like with all the couples preforming, Tristan begins by asking what Roxy and Christian enjoy about giving or receiving fellatio. While seated next to them on a long ottoman, Tristan talks through the phases of a good blow job that she organizes in these four stages: warm up, experiment, rhythm, and orgasm. It might seem clinical or odd to have someone giving instructions, but Tristan is casual in front of the camera and the couple is used to performing. After talking and demonstrating the four phases (except orgasm), Tristan opens up the floor for questions. </p>
<p>The DVD then becomes to a more traditional porn with scenes between three other men and women pairings. Kaiya and Alec focus on teasing, Lindsey and Marcos feature hand job techniques, and Adrianna and Alec show advanced skills such as deep throating and deep face thrusting. All givers communicate well with the receivers (“Is that the right pressure?” “Like that?”) and Tristan provides instructional voice-overs. Fun fellatio tips and reminders pop up on paused frames. This feature, which is reminiscent of the 90’s VHI’s Pop Up Video, was an added surprise and was helpful to note the benefits of certain positions or to note what the giver does when she needs a break. Also, the action can be viewed without the voice over and pop up instructions. I recommend watching Adrianna and Alec’s hot and sloppy deep throating without the tips and voice overs, her skills are something to aspire to. </p>
<p>The givers definitely run the show in this DVD — they take the cocks in as little or as much as they like. In standing shots, many of the men have their arms clasped behind them. It’s hot to see women giving head and look so turned on doing so. I got so turned on watching them that I interrupted my man working and got down on my knees. </p>
<p>So don&#8217;t miss out on the education and titillation. Purchase “Tristan Taormin&#8217;s Expert Guide to Oral Sex Part Two: Fellatio&#8221; DVD at www.adamandeve.com/miaontop and receive a 50% discount.</p>
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		<title>Silicone Flexi-Power Rod &#8211; A Sex Toy Review</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2009/12/04/silicone-flexi-power-rod-%e2%80%94-a-sex-toy-review/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=silicone-flexi-power-rod-%25e2%2580%2594-a-sex-toy-review</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 16:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Silicone Flexi-Power Rod (Adam &#038; Eve Item # A583, $29.95) This and other adult videos can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com. Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item. They say, “7 levels of vibration, pulsation, and escalation.” I say, “Part anal beads, dildo, and vibrator the Flexi-Power rod can be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silicone Flexi-Power Rod (Adam &#038; Eve Item # A583, $29.95)</p>
<p>This and other adult videos can be purchased from www.adamandeve.com.<br />
Enter “miaontop” at checkout and receive a 50% discount on most any item.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.adameve.com/landing.aspx?sc=miabnrd&#038;oc=50landing"><img src="http://www.miaontop.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/sam_0205.jpg" alt="sam_0205" title="sam_0205" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-710" /></a></p>
<p>They say, “7 levels of vibration, pulsation, and escalation.”<br />
I say, “Part anal beads, dildo, and vibrator the Flexi-Power rod can be used in a variety of different ways.”</p>
<p>What first drew me to the Flexi Rod was the design, which reminds me of a riding crop — slender, flexible, and meant to be held in a specific manner. Unlike a riding crop, the flexibility of the Flexi Rod is for penetration and it would not make a good whip. Adam &#038; Eve markets this toy as an anal vibrator, but the toy can be used for vaginal penetration as well. Having never experienced an anal vibrator I was curious to try. </p>
<p>Upon opening the Flexi Rod, I tested out the 7 vibrating functions to find which one I liked best. By pressing the two buttons at the same time, the quick stop is enacted. Then when you press the button again, it starts back at the first vibrating option. After a few rounds the varying speeds and sensations started to blend together. I thought I would like the “pulse, pulse vibration” function, but settled on vibration #1 which vibrates at a fast and steady pace.</p>
<p>Later, when my partner and I were having sex, he reached for the Flexi Rod to use instead of a butt plug. Always one to be intrigued by new things with buttons; he went through all the settings before deciding I would like the first vibration the best. (I love it when he is on the money.) All lubed up and on my hands and knees he inserted the vibrating toy only a few inches inside. I love anal play and vibrators so I expected to be overwhelmed with arousal upon insertion. I wasn’t. The vibration was so strong that I felt like my insides were being stirred up and messed with. I didn’t think I could warm up to the feeling so I asked him to stop. I was grateful for the quick stop button. </p>
<p>We went on to use the Flexi Rod as a beaded probe and found its bend-ability a nice feature. A word of caution when using the toy as a probe only, take out the batteries so that you don’t have to worry about turning on the vibration. I was surprised by a jolt a few times and shifting to turn the mechanism back off disrupted the rhythm a bit. </p>
<p>I have a sense that I will eventually get into vibrating anal penetration, until then the Flexi Rod will be used vaginally or as a probe without vibration. It is also worth noting that the silicone used to make the toy is phthalates free. This is good news for everyone involved. So get the Silicone Flexi-Power Rod for it’s design, versatility, and  health consciousness. </p>
<p>Order your own Silicone Flexi-Power Rod at www.adamandeve.com/miaontop and receive a 50% discount.</p>
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		<title>Episode 20 &#8211; BJ Backlash</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The clash between fantasy and reality.]]></description>
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		<itunes:duration>0:19:55</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>The clash between fantasy and reality. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The clash between fantasy and reality. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Look Mom, I&#8217;ve Been Put in Time Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The 2010 NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Release Party was a huge success. I do not have the numbers on money raised and calenders sold. I do know that the Fontana&#8217;s was packed. All the ladies featured in the calendar were looking foxy and they were having fun signing calendars with silver sharpies. I had a [...]]]></description>
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<p>The 2010 NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Release Party was a huge success. I do not have the numbers on money raised and calenders sold. I do know that the Fontana&#8217;s was packed. All the ladies featured in the calendar were looking foxy and they were having fun signing calendars with silver sharpies. I had a wonderful time chatting with fans of the podcast, sponsors of the calender, new Twitter friends, and long time friends who came out to support.</p>
<p>One of the highlights of the night was seeing M and C win an Inflatable Fuck Lounger in the raffle. With only 3 raffle tickets purchased and determined to win the most ridiculous prize, they put all three tickets in for the fucking machine. The funniest thing about this win, is that this is their first sex toy. M has never even used a vibrator. And now she has a fuck lounger that comes with 3 dildos. &#8220;All I&#8217;ve ever needed is my hand and C&#8217;s cock. That is about to change,&#8221; she said. As we made our way into the night in search of more food and drink, M carried the large box with pride. &#8220;Yes, I won. That&#8217;s right, it&#8217;s a fucking machine.&#8221; As a group of us shuttled into a packed Chinese restaurant, the box busted open and parts fell everywhere. It was a moment of hysterical hysteria as we all gathered the pieces and reassembled the box. &#8220;Looks like it&#8217;s been a fun night,&#8221; someone said.    </p>
<p>It certainly was.  </p>
<p>A big thank you to <a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogin.g?blogspotURL=http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com/?zx%3Dd17cbb5029a97cd0" target="_blank">Tess</a> and <a href="http://deedennis.com/" target="_blank">Diva</a> for putting together a beautiful calendar and for throwing an excellent party. </p>
<p>The photo shown on the Time Out website is an outtake from the shoot. See which photo made the cut. I&#8217;ll tease you with this. It&#8217;s an even more sizzling photo for the chilliness of January, so start your year off right.  </p>
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		<title>The 2010 New York City Sex Blogger Calender (I&#8217;m in it, here&#8217;s the story)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Visions of Sexual Freedom: The 2010 New York City Sex Blogger Calender 2010 marks the second year that Tess and Diva have put together the New York City Sex Blogger Calender. All proceeds from the calender go to Sex Work Awareness (SWA). If you are aren&#8217;t sure what sex work awareness is all about, here [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Visions of Sexual Freedom: The 2010 New York City Sex Blogger Calender</p>
<p>2010 marks the second year that <a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogin.g?blogspotURL=http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com/?zx%3Dd17cbb5029a97cd0" target="_blank">Tess</a> and <a href="http://deedennis.com/" target="_blank">Diva</a> have put together the New York City Sex Blogger Calender. All proceeds from the calender go to Sex Work Awareness (SWA). If you are aren&#8217;t sure what sex work awareness is all about, here is a portion of SWA mission statement:</p>
<p>We believe that all sex workers have a right to self-determination; to choose how we make a living and what we do with our bodies. We conduct research about sex workers and the sex industry in order to better understand it, develop public education initiatives, and advocate for the rights of sex workers.</p>
<p>Read more <a href="http://www.sexbloggercalendar.com/about-sex-work-awareness/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>When Tess and Diva asked me to be a model in the calender, I was honored and thrilled to be a part of such a great project. They paired me with a photographer, told me the theme, Visions of Sexual Freedom, and gave me a deadline. I completely appreciated the freedom of expression to interpret the theme as I desired and I was a bit overwhelmed. What would my interpretation of sexual freedom look like? </p>
<p>Through lots of self reflection and discussions with the photographer, I discovered my sexual freedom is rooted in openness. I have found myself to be open in my sexual fluidity as a lesbian and bisexual, in exploring variations of non-monogamy, and in pushing boundaries in kink. All of which can be well described in written form, but how would it be translated into 2D and remain a hot, sexy photograph that would make people want to buy the calender?</p>
<p>On our first shoot, the photographer and I ended up with some sexy photos, but we felt the photos didn&#8217;t fully capture a sense of openness in bisexuality or non-monogamy. So for the second shoot we had help from willing participants to be props in the photos (thanks, MS &#038; AW), which ended with many of the photos feeling contrived. Also, with additional limbs in the frame, sometimes I got lost and my agency confused. Was I preying on or being preyed on? Depicting agency in the photograph was really important to me; I wanted to look in control of my sexuality. So we dutiful set out on a third shot. And, ladies and gentlemen, the phrase was true again. The third time was the charm. (Thanks, CS &#038; MS.)</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t expect congratulations for having completed so many shoots (but many, many thanks to A for all his hard work). Rather, I share the details of the photo shoots because it was an interesting and challenging journey in self-expression. I am grateful to have been given an opportunity and a platform to interpret my sexual freedom amongst so many cool and inspiring sex bloggers. I am really happy with the final photograph and I can&#8217;t wait to see calender. </p>
<p>Come and celebrate the calender release with me on:</p>
<p>Friday November 6, 2009 — 6:30 – 9:30 PM<br />
Fontana’s — 105 Eldridge Street, New York, NY<br />
FREE ADMISSION</p>
<p>More details about the calender, the party swag, the raffle, and the sex bloggers, <a href="http://www.sexbloggercalendar.com/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Episode 18 &#8211; Weekend Bound</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 07:15:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A kinky sex retreat, a love song, and a pony and dog show.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>A kinky sex retreat, a love song, and a pony and dog show.</itunes:subtitle>
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		<title>Episode 17 &#8211; Standing In the Way of Control</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Working out the details of an open relationship.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Working out the details of an open relationship. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Working out the details of an open relationship. </itunes:summary>
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		<title>Episode 16 &#8211; Vulnerability and Desire (Squeezed and Shucked)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 23:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Naked for the first time.]]></description>
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		<itunes:duration>0:18:02</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Naked for the first time. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Naked for the first time. </itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>sex, sex-party, swingers, lesbian, bisexual, kink, BDSM, open-relationship</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Mia Martina</itunes:author>
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		<title>Morning Arousal published w/ Paper Bag Press</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2009/06/25/morning-arousal-published-w-paper-bag-press/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=morning-arousal-published-w-paper-bag-press</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Previously unpublished and not a part of the &#8220;I Want Your Sex&#8221; podcast series, this story details the intimate role playing between a heterosexual couple in D/s relationship. Here&#8217;s an exert: &#8220;I like to feel his body and only see his arm wrapped around my body and my hand balled in his. I desire and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Previously unpublished and not a part of the &#8220;I Want Your Sex&#8221; podcast series, this story details the intimate role playing between a heterosexual couple in D/s relationship.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an exert: &#8220;I like to feel his body and only see his arm wrapped around my body and my hand balled in his. I desire and adore his hands. Fierce, strong, and gentle, his hands feed, bathe, touch, tease, taunt, punish, poke, spank, tickle, surprise, arouse, and fuck me. Daddy’s hands are the provider of my pleasure and pain. He traces the side of my naked body with his hand&#8230;&#8221;  </p>
<p>Read it again and again when you purchase the e-book for only $1.99.</p>
<p>I will be recording the audio for the audiobook. Due later this summer. </p>
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		<title>Episode 15 &#8211; Pain of Pleasure</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 07:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A night at a lesbian BDSM sex dungeon.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>A night at a lesbian BDSM sex dungeon. </itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>A night at a lesbian BDSM sex dungeon. </itunes:summary>
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		<title>Interview in Paper Bag Press</title>
		<link>http://www.miaontop.com/2009/05/12/interview-in-paper-bag-press/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=interview-in-paper-bag-press</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 05:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On the more literary side, check out my interview with Amy Barnes of Paper Bag Press. Find out about how I started writing erotica, my favorite character I have written about so far, my thoughts about e-publishing and other activities I enjoy other than sex, sex parties, erotica, and kink (which are well covered topics [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the more literary side, check out my interview with Amy Barnes of Paper Bag Press. Find out about how I started writing erotica, my favorite character I have written about so far, my thoughts about e-publishing and other activities I enjoy other than sex, sex parties, erotica, and kink (which are well covered topics in the podcast).  </p>
<p>Paper Bag Press Author Interview: <a href="https://www.paper-bag-press.com/content/author-interview-mia-martina" target="_blank">Mia Martina </a></p>
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		<title>Interview on The Ropecast Podcast</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although I haven&#8217;t done much with rope, Gray still wanted to talk. And he got a lot out of me. Hear me giggle a lot over cocktails and talk about how not to be the creepy guy at a party and discover some more of my kinks. Thanks for a good time, Gray. Hope we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although I haven&#8217;t done much with rope, Gray still wanted to talk. And he got a lot out of me. Hear me giggle a lot over cocktails and talk about how not to be the creepy guy at a party and discover some more of my kinks. </p>
<p>Thanks for a good time, Gray. Hope we can do it again. Next time with rope. </p>
<p>Check it out <a href="http://ropecast.net/index.php?post_id=368134" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 02:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mia Martina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just checked my stats and am blown away by the number of listeners. So tell me what do you like, don&#8217;t like, what to you want to hear more/less of, topics to cover, etc. Do you attend sex parties? Would you want to? What are your thoughts on sex and sexuality? Please email me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just checked my stats and am blown away by the number of listeners. So tell me what do you like, don&#8217;t like, what to you want to hear more/less of, topics to cover, etc. Do you attend sex parties? Would you want to? What are your thoughts on sex and sexuality? </p>
<p>Please email me at miaontop at gmail dot com. </p>
<p>And if you don&#8217;t send an email, that&#8217;s cool. Thanks for listening. I know you are liking it as there are the same amount of listeners per episode. </p>
<p>Episode #4 should be up soon. Getting a new mic so you can hear me better. </p>
<p>xxmia</p>
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